I really wish I wasn’t honest sometimes. It’s a difference between telling the truth when asked vs being honest. I’m so honest imma tell you what it is whether you ask or not. I don’t lie to myself so I’m definitely not bout to lie to you. But not everyone can handle honesty…
Life experience teaches us when we offer vulnerability, generosity and kindness, certain people will meet us there. It also teaches us there are those who will see us as weak or someone to take advantage of. Assimilating both experiences teaches us how to discern the difference.
Lori Harvey said “I’m dating on my own terms, whatever I wanna do however I wanna do ima do it and if it’s no longer serving me I’m gonna move on” and this is what I’m living by
I hate how “being the bigger person” and “not getting out of character” are viewed as some high level of growth or maturity. There’s nothing mature or commendable about letting ppl disrespect you without consequence.
I still can’t believe Rasheeda sat up on National television and told the world that she didn’t believe K.Michelle about her abuse. All because said abuser was married to her friend and it’s crazy because years later…he finally admitted to abusing her.
I’m currently finding myself and rebranding my whole entire life rn. I can’t help nobody out , i can’t be there for nobody, Im choosing me first this time around .
You’ll never truly understand Marriages,Divorces , child birth , Death Of a loved one , parenting . Until it actually happens to you , Theories and Assumptions of situations in life are not realities..You think you are smatter than most until life humbles you when it’s your turn!