A lot of men will live their whole life providing for people they love, and leave this life unappreciated after making a lot of sacrifices and here is why:
Subtly attractive trait:
When someone doesn't ask for all the details.
They leave it up to you how much you want to share, and never make you feel like you need to justify yourself.
They never pry, so you can just BE when you're with them.
Relationships are scary. No matter how good things are going or how in love you are, your partner could just lose feelings for you and be gone just like that.
No calling is superior to another. What matters is that it be tied to a personal need and inclination, and that your energy moves you toward improvement and continuous learning from experience.
Children of the VERY average Nigerian used to have birthday celebrations. The parents would rent canopies, cook and invite djs. There used to be parties and the entire neighborhood would gather to celebrate w the child. I don’t hear birthday music anymore. There’s nothing left
Man to man;
Being broke and miserable in your 60s and 70s starts with choices you make in your 20s and 30s.
Do not relax. Grind 18 hours a day, 7 days a week. No days off. Just God, hustle, eat, sleep. It's the only way out.