So delighted to see the feature in The Times Magazine on the launch of the app Paired. Delighted that I am part of the team of relationship experts. Well done Paired.
There are many couples who have one partner saying "but I shouldn't have to ask him, surely he should know what I want!" Well, this is where it all goes wrong. None of us are mind readers and this crystal ball thinking leads us straight to feelings of resentment - Pam Custers
Couples counselling - The very nub of the work we do is to co-create an understanding of not only how we meet each other's needs, but also that we find what is in the best interests for the relationship.
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Communication is the cornerstone of every relationship. Surprisingly whilst we live in a society that bombards us with multiple ways of communicating, we are not always good at finding a way to be heard and have our needs met - Pam Custers
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Perhaps we believe that we have made our needs clear to our partners. Perhaps our partners are flaying around in the dark, ever hopeful that they are fulfilling the needs that they think they understand you have - Pam Custers
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Pink recently made a point of being honest about her marriage. "Carey and I have been in couple's counselling almost our entire 17 years we've been together. It's the only reason we're still together today." #therelationshippractice#pamcusters