@popcultureshrew@Holy_Caligula if the person has fun it's certainly not embarrassing or cringe for them 😂
If you can't handle when others have fun, that's your problem
@brujacontumbao People would only need to act defensive when they feel attacked.
What would make sense because by now you tell me I lack nuance, I'm needlessly stubborn and I act defensive.
What kinda IS attacking someone.
What is very sad. :(
@Nxnde13@asharlomo @cocktail_addict @WaleAkinOne@Pocket2u so again:
You tell people who prefer solutions over comforting words that they lack empathy and compassion
@Nxnde13@asharlomo @cocktail_addict @WaleAkinOne@Pocket2u Comforting doesn't always need to look like "cuddle me and let me cry on your shoulder".
Some see more comfort in "help me to find a way to fix it".
There are people who prefer emotional comfort and people who prefer people practical comfort makes.
@brujacontumbao In none of my comments I wrote that venting and caring for emotions isn't part of support.
You clearly made an assumption about me to say I lack of something. But you don't know what I think about it because you didn't even asked what I think about it.
@brujacontumbao PS. In none of my comments I wrote that venting and caring for emotions isn't part of support. Like in none.
What kinda shows you don't stay by what is written but make psychological assumptions to act dismissive.
Not very nice actually :)
@brujacontumbao 😂😂😂
Okay, now we are at the part where you try to make psychological assumptions about me because you made an unclear comment 😂😂
At this part I stop writing, because you don't stay by the topic but change the topic about dismissing someone's view.
@brujacontumbao Ok, that's one extreme. We can also go to the other extreme.
People who care for the time you vent but keep you in this "everything is awful"-mindset or don't care help you with your problem.
That's no problem solving at all. :/
@Nxnde13@asharlomo @cocktail_addict @WaleAkinOne@Pocket2u ok distress doesn't work.
You choose the option that feels more right for you (comforting the other person) and blame people for not appreciating (you tell people who prefer solutions over comforting words that they lack empathy and compassion)