A single mother in her late 30s was dating a divorced man in his 60s.
He took good care of her and her child.
Infact, the child and the man had started doing father-child bonding, and he was even doing school runs.
He rented an apartment for her and furnished it and everything was good.
Single mother said that she wanted more and marriage.
Man wasn't interested in marriage but wanted to keep her as his mistress and said he doesn't want any child too.
Single mother got connected to a man living abroad, and the man came to Nigeria to see her.
The man promised her marriage and got her pregnant.
The other man warned her but she said she was "in love" with the abroad man.
Single mother carried the pregnancy to term and gave birth to the child.
Child developed complications and didn't survive after a few months.
Abroad man abandoned single mother and stopped picking her calls and blocked her.
Former man had moved on and dissociated himself from single mother and the child that he had bonded with for over two years.
Single mother could no longer afford the rent and school fees of the school where former man was graciously paying for.
Now single mother is living in regrets.
Man has found another mistress and is now bonding with the new mistress and her child.
New mistress lives pretty close to former mistress, and man goes to see new mistress in the full glare of former mistress, and has bought new mistress a car while former mistress treks and is looking dejected.
End.
Adulting in Nigeria is really a faith-based project at this point 😭💔
Some people have already calculated all the bills waiting for them this week and still have no idea how they’ll pull through. Yet somehow, every week, God makes a way.
If you’re currently surviving on vibes, prayers and hope, this one is for you. 🥹🙏
🚨🗣️ | Pep Guardiola Shocked on Arsenal fans Reaction towards Gabriel Magalhaes after missing the Penalty: 🤯
“I have to say something because I saw this and, honestly, it blew my mind. It blew my mind. We know how this business works. Usually, in a Champions League final, a player misses a crucial penalty against a top, top team like PSG, and the next day... it is a disaster for him. The social media, the media, it can be very, very cruel. Very ugly. You expect the anger, the threats, the terrible words. We see it all the time.
But what the Arsenal fans did for Gabriel? Wow. It is something else. Truly. To see a player fail in the most painful moment, and the response from the stadium, from the people, is just... pure love? I am told his shirt sales went up by three hundred and fifty percent in a few days. Three hundred and fifty percent! This is incredible. I have been in football a long, long time, as a player and a manager, and I have never seen anything like it. Never.
You know, you open Facebook, you open Instagram or Twitter, and the narrative is always the same. 'Arsenal fans are insufferable. They are the worst fanbase, they are annoying.' You hear this tag all the time. But I look at this gesture and I think, 'How?' How do they have this tag? If a fanbase can wrap their arms around a player like that, in the darkest moment of the club's history a trophy they have been dying to win for decades then everything we are told online is a lie. It is a massive misconception. They have been judged so harshly.
This shows me who they really are. It shows their class, their humanity, and their loyalty. To behave like this? It is not annoying, it is not insufferable. It is beautiful. They deserve incredible praise for this, because this is what football should be about”
Tiping your office security N1k for buying your lunch, is not you doing him a favour. He earned it. If e easy, stand up from your seat and go get the food yourself. Calculate the financial cost of the stress of going the distance to get the food and back.
If you want to do him a favour, give him money for no reason. Someone would do you a favour, but you would see yourslf as the one doing them a favour because you earn higher than them and don't respect them.
If you send money to your colleague that does the same work with you and asked them to please get you lunch on their way back from wherever they were going, you see it as them doing you a favour because you respect them. You don't see it as a favour done to you when it is done by the office security or cleaner because you don't respect them. If you treat these people well and respect them, they will be happy to do things for you. You've become entitled to their help that you now expect them to use their money to fund your lunch.
My security does errands for me, and every errand comes with a tip. That is thank you for doing this because it is not his job. Favour is when I give him money for no reason which happens often or when he has special needs and makes a request and I give him money. You need to start respecting people as human beings, not by how much they earn. This thing is a common problem in our society.
As a young man working legitimately hard, when you start making money and feel that you can comfortably feed, house, and clothe yourself, a woman, and a child, it is a significant milestone.
The first thing that you should do is marry a wife and start a family while focusing on your growth and stability, rather than chasing women like headless chickens.
When you marry, the women will chase you.
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Even for cows,
Just see the treatment they get.
The quality of life/standard of living, given to cows bred to be killed, is far more superior than the life of hundreds of millions of Nigeria.
Nigerian politicians deserve to be jailed and rot in dungeons.