Marriage in India: the bride and groom are just actors, and the parents are the directors.
Indian marriages don’t collapse in one day. They collapse under pressure. And most of that pressure doesn’t come from the couple, it comes from parents.
Before marriage, parents decide what you study, where you go, who you meet, how you live. You grow up being managed.
Fine. You are a child then.
But when you are 28, 30, educated, earning, capable, and about to marry, why are you still being managed?
First they decide when you should marry. Then they decide who you should marry. Caste. Age. Salary. Background.
Your readiness is irrelevant. Their timeline is the only thing that matters.
Then comes the wedding. In India, The bride and groom are just actors, parents are the directors.
Marriage is not about two adults choosing each other it is a family production - venue, budget, guest list, clothes, rituals, every small detail involamant.
Okay. Marriage done.
Now the real problem begins - For Indian parents, privacy as a concept does not exist!
You don’t move out, you move into the same house. Two adults who just committed to each other are expected to behave like teenagers under supervision.
If a son shows affection to his wife, parents insecurity starts - Wife ne control kar liya, Beta haath se nikal gaya etc.. Now emotional drama begins - I raised you, I sacrificed for you! Love becomes competition.
This is where cracks start - A new couple needs space, they need time to build their own rhythm, their own habits, their own intimacy. Instead, they are negotiating ego, control and emotional blackmail.
And the story still doesn’t end-
Now comes the child pressure ‘Good news kab de rahe ho?’
As if reproduction is a public announcement. As if a baby is a trophy for grandparents. As if your body, your marriage, your intimacy is community property.
Some even say, “Dadi marne se pehle pota dekhna chahti hai.”
Think about the logic - you want two adults to bring a human into this world to fulfill someone else emotional closure.
That is not love, that is entitlement- The root problem is simple Indian parents struggle to let go of control. They don’t see their children as independent adults, they see them as extensions of themselves.
And when control continues after marriage, marriage becomes a battlefield. Involvement in everything - No privacy, suspicion of affection, pressure for children etc…
Then we act surprised when marriages fail - Two people are trying to build a life. But ten people are sitting in the driver’s seat.
Until we normalize boundaries, independence and privacy, the system will keep producing conflict.
Not because people are evil. But because control has been normalized for generations!
Khanzaadi’s comments were disgusting. I regret supporting her on day one. She is shaming Nehal for no reason and is clearly just jealous that Nehal is performing the tasks so well and turning out to be very strong player in the show.
Never ever order from the cheats that Ferns n Petals are! I ordered and paid for a San Sebastian cheese cake and got this trashy whipped cream instead. If I had gifted this to be delivered to someone else, would have never got to know.
Sonakshi Sinha
>She made her debut with the movie Dabangg, so it seemed like she would become a superstar..
>Then she fell in love with Iqbal Ratansi, who is a flop in Bollywood..
>Walking step by step alongside Iqbal Ratansi, she also ended up becoming a flop in Bollywood..
>Then the two of them even got married..
>Now they are earning 7,800 every month through Instagram subscriptions..
A woman’s dignity and modesty are not props to toy with. Least of all on a public stage. As a Muslim woman, watching another woman’s niqab being pulled at so casually, accompanied by that nonchalant smile, was so infuriating.
Power does not grant permission to violate boundaries.
@NitishKumar owes that woman an unconditional apology.
First she said that Bhaskar is her dear friend then she said she has only met him once or twice. This vamp exposed herself. Now it’s proven that she was being pushed by Endemol. She didn't deserve to reach Top 5.
#GauravKhanna#BiggBoss19#BB19
Name: Tina Dabhi
District Collector of Barmer
She threatened a shop owner that if they do not keep a dustbin and keep the area clean, their shop will be closed. But in her own area, a new road broke like mava mithai in just one day.
She does not have the courage to question the powerful. She only wants to do reel-bazi by threatening poor and helpless people.
Shame on you. IAS should be humble, so people feel hope, not fear.
#AshnoorKaur did not deserve to go based on what isn't even proven to be intentional. In the past when someone throttled, it was justified, when someone slapped, it was justified. When plate pieces broke it was BB property breaking and could have hurt someone... not a question raised.
How unfair just to eliminate her and have another move ahead!
#TanyaMittal during a live feed had said, "Jitna Mera Bahar Chal Raha Hai, Mere To 5-6 Million Ho Gaye Honge, #AmaalMallik Ke to 2-2.5 Million Hi Followers Hain, Main Usko Kyun Bhav Dungi"
She is shocked to see that she didn't cross even 4 million while #Amaal has crossed 5 million".
#BB19 #BiggBoss19
I know #AshnoorKaur should give more content in #BiggBoss19 but she is the best personality in house.
If this is personality show then she is a winner for me. She gives her opinion in dignified manner. She is an amazing friend. She isn’t disrespectful, doesn’t go below the belt!
#AshnoorKaur in lf:
Age factor sabse bada problem hain. Mein apne age walo ke sath bohot differently react karti. Yaha agar apko lagta hain koi kuch galat bhi bolrahe hain toh bhi mein kehti hu achcha chalo thik hain, let go.
And that's why she "doesn't take stands".
#Abhinoor
Bajaj and Baseer both revealed that Amaal and Kunika kept going to the confession room many times
when and why? Because we, the audience, didn’t see anything about it in the episode or the live feed!
#Biggboss19#BB19#AbhishekBajaj