“trans men are discouraged from being masculine” & “trans men are discouraged from being feminine” can both coexist bc trans men are discouraged from existing.
The ‘rules’ for how trans men conduct themselves are supposed to be impossible. Patriarchy doesn’t want us in any form
correcting someone when they misgender you is so hard bc then they take like 5 minutes to apologize and explain how they didn’t know and how they weren’t thinking, and it’s just so excruciating. lol like you could just correct yourself and move on