Anything said behind your back is none of your business!! You cannot address or confront anyone on it. They didn’t have the guts to tell it to your face , it doesn’t concern you !!
Y’all will literally drain the niceness outta a person… and then act shocked when they stop being sweet. Ain’t nobody born mean… people get worn down, disrespected, and pushed there.
Honestly, if you know how long it took some people to recover their peace of mind and happiness, you’ll understand why they shut all doors at the slightest sign of toxicity and become picky about who they allow into their lives.
Cutting people off isn’t about hate or jealousy. Sometimes it’s just a difference in mindset. Some people lack loyalty. Some are users. Some drain your energy. Some are just two-faced. Not everyone wants to be around that.