can i say something... warning: long post ‼️
i saw something that got me thinking about rafayel and how easily his emotional struggles can be dismissed bc of the WAY he expresses them, calling him overdramatic, overreacting, immature or wtv.
personally, i see rafayel as a very emotionally mature li. ofc he has a lot of questionable actions but i still think he handles things the best overall. he's also started opening up more to mc which shows his progress. i think when he's being "overdramatic" or "overreacting" thats just one of the ways he copes. in the same way sometimes he just wants to be comforted too. from his pov, he's basically a god with a traumatic past and huge responsibilities so it makes sense that seeking help or expressing vulnerability in a "normal" way might be difficult for him. he's so used to being strong and carrying everything himself that he doesnt always know how to directly say that he needs someone. and the fact that he mainly shows this side of himself with mc makes it even more meaningful bc it suggests that he feels safe enough with her to be vulnerable.
a lot of ppl are just too shallow in how they interpret his character when he's such a nuanced character overall. they're so used to patriarchal ideas of what emotional maturity should look like in men like being stoic, independent and emotionally restrained that instead of breaking away from those expectations, they end up judging rafayel through the same lens. they see his emotionality and need for reassurance as immaturity without considering why he behaves that way, what he's been through or what he's actually trying to communicate.
and to ME, being emotionally mature doesnt mean never being dramatic, needy or having unhealthy coping mechanisms. its more about being able to recognize your emotions, be vulnerable, take responsibility and grow from them. rafayel is not emotionally "perfect" in every aspect (he's perfect to me tho idc) but he does show that growth esp in how he gradually becomes more open with mc. thats what makes him emotionally mature to me 🥲
@CamargoJes87176 En mi caso no, nunca me aburrí de hacerlo con mi ex, al menos en los 5 años que estuve con él. Pero era porque él me despertaba mucho deseo, con los otros que tuve no me pasó lo mismo y al año ya no había mucha actividad.
HAN CREADO UN CAPCUT GRATIS Y SIN MARCAS DE AGUA, Y YA TIENE 62K STARS EN GITHUB
CapCut te mete marca de agua, te bloquea funciones y encima te cobra suscripción.
Un grupo de devs se cansó y construyó la alternativa open source y gratuita.
Se llama OpenCut. Te explico todo:
Un editor de vídeo open source que están construyendo desde cero, con arquitectura basada en plugins.
La idea: una alternativa real a CapCut, pero abierta.
Sin marcas de agua, sin paywalls, sin suscripciones.
Lo que crearon:
→ Editor completo con línea de tiempo y multipista
→ Plugins nativos para expandir lo que puede hacer
→ Una sola app para web, escritorio y móvil (núcleo en Rust)
→ MCP Server, automatizaciones y soporte para agentes de IA
→ Licencia MIT: puedes hacer lo que quieras con él
Cómo instalarlo:
→ Clona el repo desde GitHub
→ Instala las dependencias
→ Ejecuta la versión clásica (disponible ya)
→ Sigue la nueva versión en https://t.co/wa5VTQYLn1
Es exactamente lo que CapCut debería haber sido desde el principio.
Enlace abajo👇
-You're feeling a little anxious. That's probably why you're overthinking things..
I'm a bit late, but here's my gift for Rafayel, and his girlies 🥰 Thank you @iza_kru_91 for your help again, I know u love him as much as I do ❤️
Happy Birthday, Rafayel! 🎂
#LoveandDeepspace #RafayelBirthday2025