having your emotions consistently invalidated as a child & one day waking up as an adult expected to validate your own emotions in order to set boundaries & trust your feelings over everyone else’s is an extremely wild fucking experience. be gentle with yourself. you’re learning.
one of the worst things is when you stand up for yourself or communicate in an extremely direct way and there go an insecure mf who lacks self awareness trying to paint you as the villain. they try to guilt you and make you question yourself. it’s very ugly. you had every right.
Conventional physics: "magic doesn't exist, everything is boring cause and effect."
Quantum physics: "boring cause and effect doesn't exist, everything is magic."