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UPDATE: The man who slept with his best friend’s wife-to-be. I advised him not to confess to his friend yet, because he hadn't gotten any concrete confessional evidence. I also told him to wait until his friend returns to the country. I told him to invite the lady over, have a proper conversation with her, and record the conversation. He did. And what she said during that conversation was worse than I expected. She eventually came over to his place. They had a drink, and he tried to behave as naturally as possible because he didn’t want her to suspect that anything was different. As they talked, she started opening up. She told him that his best friend was actually a good man and deserved to be with a woman who genuinely loved him. But then she started talking about his flaws. According to her, he was irresponsible and very spoiled, partly because he grew up as an only child. She also revealed something interesting about how their relationship started. Apparently, their families already had a connection. Their fathers had gone to university together in the United States, and that family relationship helped bring the two of them together. Then the conversation shifted to why she was attracted to his best friend. Or rather, why she was attracted to him. She told him she found him more natural. He had a bit of a "bad boy" vibe, didn’t seem to take life too seriously, and that was part of what drew her toward him. He asked if there was anybody else. She insisted there wasn’t. Then he asked her the question that really mattered: "Will you call off the relationship & planned wedding?" She said no. That answer confused him. If you don’t truly love this man, and you’re having an affair with his best friend, why are you still determined to marry him? Her answer shocked him. She said she was going to marry his best friend for the status, not because she loved him. At that point, he told her he wanted to end whatever was going on between them. That was when she made another disturbing statement. She told him that even if they broke up, she would still go ahead with the marriage. And according to her, if the marriage became unbearable, she would make his best friend’s life a living hell until he was the one who eventually filed for divorce. There was one thing she apparently didn't realize throughout this conversation: He was recording everything. Now he has the evidence. The question is no longer whether he should tell his best friend. The question is: How do you tell your best friend that the woman he is preparing to marry admitted she doesn’t love him, while also confessing that you betrayed him with that same woman? End.

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