You’re at constant risk of being de-prioritized.
If you’re judging your own performance as a sub based on what you’ve given in the past & not what you’ll be giving in the future... you’re failing.
My ideal sub:
💗 Likes to pay
💗 Wants to give up freedom
💗 A plaything/doll
💗 Will get a camera to be watched
💗 Not a liar
💗 Unhealthily attached
💗 Sad & sacrificial