mental and physical health of both the findom and the findom.
ใ๐ ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ง๐ช๐ฏ๐ช๐ต๐ฆ๐ญ๐บ ๐ค๐ฐ๐ถ๐ญ๐ฅ ๐ฉ๐ข๐ท๐ฆ ๐ฎ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด ๐ญ๐ฐ๐ฏ๐จ๐ฆ๐ณ- ๐ด๐ฐ๐ณ๐ณ๐บ ๐ช๐ต๐ด ๐ด๐ฐ ๐ด๐ฉ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ต, ๐ ๐ฌ๐ช๐ฏ๐ฅ ๐ฐ๐ง ๐ณ๐ถ๐ด๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ช๐ต! ๐๐ฏ๐ซ๐ฐ๐บ ๐ช๐จ ๐น๐ใ
Findom is a kink. Duh, right? ๐
โช But deeper, kink means consent & boundaries, so what does that mean for findom?๐ฒ
This typically is a discussion after tribute & AV to make sure each others limits & boundaries are discussed and respected, consent for any sessions is obtained.
โข สแดแดษดแด แดสษชแดs in findom is usually a discussion between the finsub and findom, talking in depth about limits, mutual kinks, budget and what does/doesn't work between the two of you. It is important boundaries be respected by both parties, at every part of the dynamic for the
Leaving an abusive Dom is one of the hardest chain to break as a sub.
"Maybe this is just what I deserve"
No you don't deserve to be broken down.
No that isn't all you're good for.
A dynamic isn't chaos.
You're worth more than whatever someone convinced you to tolerate.
@MommyLaverna This is exactly the way I've been my whole life :') the first time I remember struggling with it was when someone told me they didn't want to be my friend I was like 'oh shit... I must be an awful person if they don't like me.'
Ive never been able to so perfectly word it tho :')