people always say “stop explaining yourself” but honestly, i think explaining yourself to the right person is one of the most intimate things you can do.
Having the nerve to say you love someone and have so much respect for them, while deliberately lying to their face and making continuous disrespectful choices behind their back is craaaaaazy.
i’m at a stage in life where i’m comfortable letting people keep conclusions i know are wrong, because not every battle is worth the energy required to win it.
One day it just clicks… You realize what’s important and what isn’t. You learn to care less about what other people think of you and more about what you think of yourself. You realize how far you’ve come and you remember when you thought things were such a mess that they’d never recover. And then you smile. You smile because you are truly proud of yourself and the person you’ve fought to become.
If someone stays loyal to you, it’s because of their character and morals, not your worth. Loyalty is a moral decision made in private, when temptation, convenience, and opportunity are all knocking at the door.
Read this again.
Bir insan değişmiyorsa bu kafa karışıklığı değil tercihtir. Sizi incittiğini biliyor ve hiçbir şey yapmıyorsa cevabını vermiştir. Gerçekten isteyen kendini düzeltir, değişmiyorsa kaybetmeyi göze almıştır.
Delete conversations that hurt you whenever you read them. Delete phone numbers. Block contacts. Restrict. Mute. Unfollow. Remove negative energy from your life.
Do whatever it is that you need to do in order to heal and create a positive environment for yourself please.
They weren't lying when they said you wake up one day and just don't care anymore. No warning, no dramatic shift, just a quiet, almost peaceful detachment.
A man can be at his lowest point mentally, emotionally, financially, and spiritually, and still show up every day like nothing is wrong. As long as he performs, nobody asks what it cost him. It is not care, it is output they are watching.
i think the worst trait someone can have is being prideful. you’re not growing as a person because you’re not correcting yourself and your heart is corrupted.