@Jennife10651535 Of course , for all those years so much part of your life, a huge loss even though he is in the best place for his care. The caring you found so hard has almost completely stopped, a shock and adjustment in itself xx
@HeldinEU Maybe they just can not envisage, and have not experienced of the sheer difficulty and trauma you are all going through, the moment by moment changes and need for intervention. Definitely not for spectators ๐
@HeldinEU I feel for you both. Final days a relative with SCLC waited for a chair, for positioning to ease breathing , the designated chair cleaning person could not be located for many hours, my daughterโs begged to be allowed to clean it.
@HeldinEU@Jennife10651535 That worked for us. At one point I was told I would not be able to manage that, my answer - watch me! It was mentally and physically hard but the right thing x