Lilfeliz • PO

In pursuit of constructive feedback, better results, and permanent solutions 🌸

[The Most Triggering Show on Healing @mosttriggering]

Absolutely fantastic response. This is why I always say that people think love and friendship = customer service. People expect you to comfort them, take their side, offer your support, and when you don’t offer the customer service that they want, they leave.

[The Most Triggering Show on Healing @mosttriggering]

This is because the entire world thinks love = customer service

Like the customer service at the five star hotel that anticipates your needs and reads your mood before you do

[The Most Triggering Show on Healing @mosttriggering]

Here is the truth: when a woman loves a man, she DOES NOT allow him to apologize when he is not wrong. Here is the exact verbiage said by her:

You don’t need to say sorry. You did nothing wrong.

It is stated as a fact, in a tone that is authentic and soothing and is Real Love.

[The Most Triggering Show on Healing @mosttriggering]

As I keep reminding everyone, those who aren’t healing will constantly rewrite definitions so that healing and health can include them.

In this case, a healthy relationship is now defined as = a test, hard, ugly, scary, worse than toxicity.

[The Most Triggering Show on Healing @mosttriggering]

2. If the relationship is hard, ugly, and takes work, by definition, it’s not a healthy relationship. Healthy relatioships require no troubleshooting nor work. That’s what being healthy means. Healthy means no conflict—whether internal or external.

[The Most Triggering Show on Healing @mosttriggering]

Let’s not get it twisted.

1. Health is only a test to those who resist health. If a person didn’t resist health, why would being being healthy = such a difficult test.

To those who are healthy, health is basically Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday Sunday.

[The Most Triggering Show on Healing @mosttriggering]

In a way, it is not necessary to talk about true love. Without real healing, any “love” is just another fear, and for those truly healing, there’s not much to say about it. It would be like talking about peace. When you’re peaceful, what is there to say? Nothing. It’s done.

[The Most Triggering Show on Healing @mosttriggering]

All romantic yearning is actually just a longing for mom, dad, and god.

[The Most Triggering Show on Healing @mosttriggering]

To truly heal, you’d need to stop feeling like a victim. This includes using healing methods that don’t work. It is identical to trying to travel but choosing the treadmill as the vehicle, then complaining that healing is mysterious and never ends. But you picked the treadmill.

[The Most Triggering Show on Healing @mosttriggering]

People believe to be spiritual means to be complex. They’ve got their light, shadow, higher self, lower self, ego, soul, day job, soul purpose, inner world, outer world, mundane, divine, this, that, and the other.

Real healing means a person becomes basic, simple, uncomplicated.

[The Most Triggering Show on Healing @mosttriggering]

Real Healing ensures what happened to you Does Not turn you into who you are today. You do not need to accumulate every morsel of dirt in order to develop an identity. If you cannot tolerate eating off of a dirty dinner plate, why do you tolerate living in lack of mental health?

[The Most Triggering Show on Healing @mosttriggering]

What happened to you Does Not actually make you into who you are today. If it was true, it’d mean that the pasta sauce that dried on your dinner plate made it into what it is today. People repeat this stuff because they’re trying to justify the lack of Real Healing.

[The Most Triggering Show on Healing @mosttriggering]

Psychology separates everything into buckets: here’s your shadow, here’s your light, here’s your good, here’s your bad. In the world of energy, no such thing exists, which means it doesn’t exist at all. If a person is trying to heal based on the teachings of Carl Jung—good luck.

[The Most Triggering Show on Healing @mosttriggering]

Spiritual teachings directly block real healing. One of the most damaging teachings of spirituality is telling us that we aren’t our bodies and minds. From the true healing perspective, we ARE our body and mind. Here I explain exactly why and how 👇🏻https://t.co/S69ccVghHD

[The Most Triggering Show on Healing @mosttriggering]

Why do people say healing happens in spirals? First, people don’t know what they talk about. Second, it’s a marketing narrative to cover up lack of success. Real healing does NOT happen in spirals. Here is why and how: https://t.co/goEal02LQr

[Lilfeliz • PO @PersevereOnward]

“Temporary bliss is when a person, for a short moment, 𝑚𝑒𝑛𝑡𝑎𝑙𝑙𝑦 steps outside of their psychological mess and experiences an intense flow or joy. That is to say, if their house is full of trash, smells, and has a roach infestation, they’re going to be super happy to mentally check into a five–star hotel.

Seekers equate this five–star hotel as “bliss.” In those moments, it does feel like all their problems came to an end. But for most people, it doesn’t last, because all luxury hotel stays come to an end. Eventually, people return to their default. They gotta mentally go home to their mess.” — Ana Coeur

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[Lilfeliz • PO @PersevereOnward]

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[National Geographic @NatGeo]

Wishing a Happy Birthday to Sir David Attenborough. Thank you for the knowledge, passion, and hope you’ve passed on to all of us.

Celebrate 100 years of Sir David Attenborough with Ocean with David Attenborough on @DisneyPlus and @hulu

[Netflix UK & Ireland @NetflixUK]

100 years old and still the coolest person alive. Happy birthday, Sir David!

[Anish Moonka @anishmoonka]

A lion can stand three feet from your face on a safari and not even register that you exist. To its brain, you and the jeep are the same animal. One big weird shape that doesn't smell like food. Stand up though, and you go from invisible to dinner in under a second.

For the lion, you and the other tourists never register as separate people. The whole jeep looks like one giant creature made of metal and fabric and humans all smushed together. That shape has no scent of any prey animal, and it moves nothing like one. The brain searches its mental file of every animal it's ever hunted, finds no match, and moves on.

Lions learn this from their mothers. In places like the Serengeti or Maasai Mara, they see more than 100 of these jeeps a day. Cubs grow up watching mom ignore every truck. They copy what mom does. After a few generations, an entire population of lions has decided that safari vehicles are boring background noise, no different from trees or rocks.

Hunting is expensive. A lion that picks the wrong target won't have enough energy left to catch the right one tomorrow. So when the brain sees a weird shape that doesn't fit anything in its hunting memory, it just skips it.

But the whole truce hangs on one rule. The shape has to stay the same. The second someone stands up or leans out the window, the big creature breaks apart. Suddenly there's a person-sized snack standing where a big boring shape used to be. The lion's brain registers the change in under a second.

In June 2015, a 29-year-old American filmmaker rolled down her window at a park near Johannesburg to take a photo. A lioness was already a meter from the truck, just watching. It lunged through the open window and bit her in the neck. She died at the scene.

Ten years later, in September 2025, a zookeeper at Safari World in Bangkok stepped out of his vehicle in the lion section. One lion charged. The rest of the pride joined within seconds. The park had run these tours for over 40 years and nobody had ever died like that.

Craig Packer has spent over 40 years studying lions and started the world's first lion research center back in 1986. He's said it plainly more than once. Lions don't have much patience for humans acting weird. Sit still and you're part of the furniture; move suddenly and you're a target.

The truce works because every lion in those parks grew up watching its mom ignore the trucks. Break the pattern, and the whole thing falls apart in about as long as it takes to stand up.