@nishtiyduhom@maika_anarchiya i do also have to add here, a lot of the gender abolitionism without consideration for how sex is the gendering of the body simply boils down to abolishing gender and still defaulting to anatomy is destiny in the form of sex. much of the early "gender critical" writings are this
i keep seeing people say “this book is required reading for utena” or “this movie was an influence on utena” and i’m not saying these are wrong but a lot of what people are mentioning comes from the primary Ur-Text of Utena: avant-garde theater/film director Terayama Shūji
@malicenya@maika_anarchiya @TRAIN_DERAILER lol ye no, especially his writing on women is so profoundly misogynistic in a way only a super repressed masucline gay guy can be
@maika_anarchiya @TRAIN_DERAILER @malicenya mishima is actually the considerably more pathetic of the two as a person lmao (also why his writing is super interesting)
one thing i've noticed with presenting more fem in my day-to-day is that men really do seem to think "i'd fuck you" is like the biggest compliment they can give for some reason
the pornography industry. sex negative feminism has been reduced too to employing the state appartus to restrict certain narrow sexual acts or their portrayal. idk, i guess this is kinda what i have to say for rn.
some of you need to get fucked really well one good time and you’ll stop being so weird about sex on the internet. in the meantime jerk off to something random and have some electrolytes
both sides during the sex wars essentially argued for a complete restructuring of societal sexual dynamics, while nowadays the sex positive side has, in the mainstream, been boiled down to a very uncritical choice feminism, which leads to such things as the horrific state of
People being pressured into sexual acts they don't enjoy to please someone else is a real, common problem. I wish we were talking about that and not "anal ruins your body. it will make you SHIT YOURSELF forever. it is a gross debasement of all that is female and natural"