You should have things you don't do, places you don't go to, substances you don't take, words you don't say
By all means, have Principles and Standards.
This advice is for some of you Nigerians living in China 🇨🇳, and those of you who are still planning to visit. Y’all really need to do better. I’m just so happy he said everything in Igbo language. He’s a smart guy.
I'll give married guys some free advice...
Chase your wife around the house. You turn something on in her. You guys become children for just that 4 minutes running around. 😉
Lift her off the ground. It says something to her mind. 😉
But if you want to keep the spark alive in the middle of a busy life, add these to the list:
Take over the dinner chaos. When she is staring down the pot trying to figure out how to feed everyone, stepping in and saying, "I've got this," or just ordering the Friday night pizza or food so she doesn't have to cook, speaks directly to her soul.
Handle the unsexy logistics.
Give her the gift of absolute silence. Sometimes taking the kids out of the house for two hours so she can just exist in a quiet room without anyone needing anything from her.
Flirt with her during the ordinary moments. A wink across the room while you are both cleaning up the kitchen reminds her that underneath the heavy titles of "Mom" and "Dad," you are still just two people crazy about each other.
Notice the invisible labor. Thank her for remembering the scheduling, the grocery, and all the behind the scenes magic that keeps the house running. It bridges the gap and silently says, "I see exactly how hard you work for us."
The movie romance is great, but the trenches of everyday life are where the real connection happens.
Show up for her there.
@morgan_twts 2. Avogadro law state that equal volume of all gases at the same temperature and pressure, contain the same number of molecules.
-GGSSS Kuje😂
@morgan_twts Nile, Niger, Congo, Senegal, Orange, Limpopo, Zambezi
They represent the major, longest, and most significant water bodies in Africa.
My dad used to sing them as songs to us, one of the many things he learned during his time in the Boys Scout.