one of the ugliest truths about life is that every choice kills another version of your life.
get married, and you’ll eventually miss the freedom you had alone. stay single, and there will be nights when you wonder what it would’ve been like to build a life with someone. have children, and you’ll miss parts of the life you had before them. don’t have children, and you may spend years wondering about the family you never created.
there is no perfect path and there is no decision that leaves you with everything.
the life you didn’t choose will always look better from a distance because you never had to pay its price.
stop searching for a choice you won’t regret , it doesn’t exist. choose your life, accept what it costs, and live with the consequences. buena suerte 👍
The truth is, your THOUGHTS have forms and take on form spiritually. These thought forms attract other similar thought forms from the ether and grow in size and strength as they go round.
When they ripen, they have direct INFLUENCE on events on earth, in the physical, bringing blessings to contributors or causing devastation to others.
So that when they return to each of their creators, the consequences return “1000 fold”.
Through our thoughts, we ALL have contributed to the deaths or blessings of others. The fruits are still ripening for us all.
This is the fact, whether you believe it or not.
It's a human thing, not a female thing. It happens in different variations.
You show interest in someone and keep showing up while they keep dismissing you and acting indifferent. The day you stop, epiphany hits them that you were genuinely in love with them they could have actually treated you better. They might try to reach out snd do better, but sometimes, it is too late. They get to live with the pain because compared to other alternatives, you were a lot better.
Other occasions, you hurt someone you love and they forgive you and you do it again. A person's grace has limit. When they pull away, you suddenly realize you could have done better. You could even fix the problem and be a better person, but you've lost them. You would wish they gave you another chance but a heart gone, is gone forever. Now you have to live with the guilt.
Therr are other variations of this. Humans are complicated, but actions have consequences.