Life really teaching me detachment. Learning to appreciate people and moments without holding them too tight. Everything isn’t meant to stay, and that’s okay.
I used to be big on addressing stuff because I felt like communication would fix things. But it's so draining now. Let people be who they are and move on.
If they vibes get weird, move on. Let this be the last year you force conversations, friendships, relationships, attention and love. Anything forced is not worth fighting for. Your life naturally makes room for the people who are meant to be there.
Can’t nobody ever gaslight me into thinking I’m a bad person. I have my ways & I have my days, but I’m solid & my love is real & genuine every step of the way.
I don't trust people who believe there's nothing about themselves that they need to change. That makes zero sense to me. You can be a genuinely good person, but there are always behaviors and mentalities you need to actively unlearn, and there are always things about yourself that you need to work on. There is always room for growth and improvement as long as you are alive. Acknowledging this doesn't mean you have to be self-deprecating at all. Honest yet gentle constructive criticism about yourself is essential to maintaining healthy relationships and living your best life. It is how you hold yourself accountable for the harm you cause yourself and others.