“If i am moving to your girlfriend I won’t be telling her I like her,
I will come in as a friend who is always there for her,
And you will sound like a douchebag if you’re stopping her to be just friends with me”
— Timini Egbuson
I like as una don use style Dey normalize cheating , clowning it as “cheating back”
If you detest cheating , why not walk away with your dignity ?
I still stand on this ground, anyone that “cheats back” is just a cheater looking for an excuse to justify their actions without feeling the guilt that comes with it
This babe said she wants the type of guy that would ask her if she is free in 2 weeks because he wants to fly her to Dubai and fly her first class. She said any man that flies her economy is a useless person.
Such a person cannot love you and has zero desire to love. This performative love that is Instagrammable is delusional.
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There is a lady that loves Malta Guinness. My guy bought her two crates and she melted in his arms. I know another one that loves avocado and anytime her man buys avocado for her, she lights up like a child. True desire!
I always wonder if you people don't enjoy life's little pleasure. Don't you have something that you genuinely enjoy when nobody is watching? You see that mama that sells ewa agoyin and soft bread that you enjoy, tell your date you love her food. You love climbing trees and plucking ebelebo, tell your person. You enjoy the silliness of solidifying milo and chewing on it like a snack, tell your person. If you're afraid to tell your person what you really enjoy, it is not love. 1Jn 4:18 says "there is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love."
Try to enjoy things that do not require external validation. A girl saw a public proposal and she spoke out that if she doesn't get something like this, she is not accepting it because she does not deserve less. Her friend asked her, would you be okay getting it if you won't have to post it on social media and she said No. So it is not that she actually likes it, she just wants to pepper people and get validation. Some of the thing you people crave, you do not really care about it. You just feel like it elevates you in people's eyes.
Don't murder the child in you trying to live up to external validation. Do the things that make the child in you, light up.
50 is too much
I am in my 30s and 90% of my male friends are married.
Before now, Decembers like this na road trips or air trips and fun and overnights laughing, partying and squandering.
Now, I don't expect my married friends to make plans and put me in it. they have wives and kids to focus on now. All their travel plans and flex plans, na with their wives and kids.
If to say I be person wey no like dey alone, I for dey skip in periods like these. Even me wey like to dey alone, I dey feel am small.
The humans you see today evolved as tribes and communities. our nature will collapse without people around us
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