This is simple, really. He's giving you the power to choose to engage. If you engage, you're interested, if you don't, no one is pestering you when you know you're not interested. W-W, really.
Propaganda Iโm not falling for:
โIf he wanted to, he wouldโ
Because itโs a weaponized phrase to shame men into doing what womenโs wants without considering stress, money, neurodivergence, culture, fear, or plain confusion.
Entitled people are just the worst.
@Iamivy05 I'm glad you said "most".
'Cause communication โ comprehension. Also, "solutions" often mean compromise. There's absolutely nothing wrong with compromise - as long as it's not on fundamentals/non-negotiables.
Refusing to name women as abusers when theyโre violent is still misogyny. It strips women of full humanity by pretending theyโre incapable of cruelty or being evil. This is why I donโt like the term โcrazy girlfriendโ because that woman is an abuser & she is violent!
Whatever you do, pray for the ability to see your own sins, your own hypocrisy, and your own shortcomings. Never lose sight of that. Never get so carried away, pointing fingers that you forget you, too, have abscesses that need tending.