For the frustrated, crazed & lonely lovers.. whose spouse gives more time to their Phone, than to the loving familes in front of them!
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#narcissisticabusetruths
When you are so used to being ignored, invalidated you get very sensitive to those who are even slightly not listening, look away, appear bored. It is a trigger hard to get over. To get someone's full attention is rare or even believe it when it happens.
Ever heard "I'm done explaining" or "I'm done talking about it", or something similar? A #narcissist DECIDES when the conversation is over w/ NO need to ensure their partners are at peace w/ the topic.
HUGE 🚩🚩 if someone ENDS a conversation before ALL parties are at peace.
The #NarcissisticAbuse#relationship wears out the victim who eventually becomes a mere shell of who they once were. All for nothing. All for someone - the #narcissist - who will never appreciate you as a HUMAN being.
Appreciation of others & #narcissism do not mix.
Ever.
A #narcissist won't answer questions head on; instead she or he will likely divert, deflect, ACCUSE. When others do this, pay attention. 🚩🚩
Even in the face of proof many will deny. If they DO admit, they'll give you 100 reasons why YOU caused them to do said behavior. BLAME.
Ever heard "I'm not going to argue w/ you"... yeah, me too.
A conversation about YOUR feelings in NO way serves the #narcissist, so the conversation will be turned around, end in blame, twisted, deflected, ignored, end in accusations that YOU are wrong somehow.
A confronted #narcissist has NOTHING to gain from this & will employ a variety of standard issue responses that lead absolutely nowhere.
Once THEY decide the conversation is over, it's over.
A narc w/ nothing to gain is a COMBATIVE narc.
Don't waste your breath.
Narcissists are pathological liars who lie both by omission and commission. Lying by commission is purposely saying something untrue with intent to deceive & gain advantage. Lying by omission is deliberately leaving out some important piece of information.
#narcissisticabuse
"ABUSIVE FORGETTING" is how narcissists conveniently forgets anything the victim requests from them to get closure ( i.e. “I don’t know what you are talking about”). Their forgetting is not legitimate; it is a form denial designed to control the victim, causes confusion.
#NPD
Ever tried expressing an opinion to a narcissist? Don’t bother. They don’t listen. They just use it as an excuse to condemn you and reflect the statement back to you, flagging up a minuscule, desperate example from 15 years ago