Just put your head down & build.
That's the only score that matters: build something.
Leave something behind.
Build something bigger than yourself.
At the end of the day, the only score that matters is the answer to the question “what have you built?”
As a man, normalise a boring life. Go to bed early. Read long books. Drink tea. Regulate your nervous system. Spend time alone. Go for walks without headphones. Eat simple food. Shrink your circle. Turn down the noise.
Your death will come on an ordinary day, in the middle of unfinished plans. The world will continue as usual without you. So live your life by your own rules.
If you want to spend your life with someone, you have to understand that there will be arguments, bad days, and good days, so learn to forgive. A relationship is more than just pictures and cute videos. Be humble.
A woman leaving you because of struggles is understandable. There’s no glory in suffering together. But trying to win that same woman back after you become financially stable is something I’ll never understand.
Today, I went to Shoprite to buy lunch. In front of me was a student buying her mini groceries. When she swiped her card, it declined, and she wanted to remove a few items. I told her to not remove anything and I paid for all her groceries. I made her day🥺