Power exchange isn't one sided. It's built together.
A sub isn't there to sacrifice their wellbeing for a Dom's wishes.
Dom isn't taking from a sub until there's nothing left to give.
Strength of a dom is putting the health of the dynamic above your ego and getting your way.
Dom delegating tasks to their Sub
Dom - You wash the dishes, Iβll put them up
Sub - Why canβt I put them up!
Dom - Youβd have to stand on the corner to reach the top shelf
Sub frowns in shortness
Dom - Donβt be sad, you know youβre my favorite little chaos gremlin
I always thought I wanted someone to duo in bot lane with, but when they're a jungle main who runs in and ganks for a double kill, then tells me "Don't worry babe, you can safely back now."???!?!