What I realized in my last relationship is that he was more of a detacher, while I’m very much a “talk to me” person.
Me, I’m not comfortable going hours without hearing from my man. Him? He could go the whole day and be perfectly fine. Conversations felt stressful for him, and that’s when I knew we probably wouldn’t work.
I want someone who is as conversational as I am. Gist me. Randomly send me pictures of one gbeborun happening somewhere and let’s laugh and talk about it after work.
He may have liked me a lot, but I was beginning to feel like he didn’t. At the same time, he probably felt like I was nagging him.
So I’m genuinely curious: do we have people who love their partners deeply but still enjoy disappearing to touch grass for hours without talking to anyone? 🤔
Y'all ever dealt with a person so manipulative and draining that you literally just give up on trying to get your point across? Because all they do is PURPOSELY try not to understand and flip it back on you?
if love ever finds me again, may the universe let me meet someone who loves me as deep as i do. Someone who is never okay with hurting me. Someone who is loyal, kind & devoted. Someone who will never make me feel unwanted, someone who feels like home & also finds home in me.
When people don’t consider you in the same way you consider them, let them go. There’s actually so many people in the world that can match your energy and love you the way you love.
Getting hurt by someone you went all out for will mess you up mentally. Because you weren't half in.
You gave them your time, your energy, your loyalty, things that don't come easy when you've been hurt before.
You can spend 2 years with the same person, adjust your your routine to fit theirs, get to a point where their mood affects your mood and they will wake up one day and say they don’t love you anymore and walk away from your life and There is nothing you can do about it