Salam sahabat2..
Andai aku ada salah silap, terkecil hati, terguris rasa, terhutang, terambil barang..
Maafkan saya ye..
Zaman2 jahil, zaman sering terlupa dunia ni sekejap sgt..
@FANOFYOKAIWATC8 I start to not take this movie seriously when the burn mark on his forehead that he got from the first movie, suddenly gone from the rest of the entire franchise.
He’s made of plastic but then toys cant really talk. So, i rest my case lol 🫤
Amalan yang bisa dilakukan di 10 Muharram (Asyura):
1. Puasa Asyura
Rasulullah ﷺ bersabda:
"Puasa Asyura menghapus dosa setahun yang telah lalu."
(HR. Muslim)
2. Lebihkan nafkah untuk keluarga
Menyiapkan makanan lebih baik, memberi hadiah kecil, atau
menghadirkan kebahagiaan di rumah.
3. Bersedekah
Tidak harus besar. Yang penting ikhlas dan dilakukan
karena Allah.
4. Menyantuni anak yatim
Memberi perhatian, bantuan, atau kebahagiaan kepada
mereka.
5. Perbanyak dzikir
Salah satu dzikir yang dianjurkan dibaca 70x:
حَسْبُنَا اللَّهُ وَنِعْمَ الْوَكِيلُ نِعْمَ الْمَوْلَى وَنِعْمَ النَّصِيرُ
Latin:
Hasbunallahu wa ni'mal wakīl, ni'mal maulā wa ni'man naṣīr.
Artinya:
"Cukuplah Allah menjadi penolong bagi kami, dan
Dia sebaik-baik pelindung dan penolong."
Disunatkan pada hari ‘Asyura’ untuk seseorang itu melapangkan harta (belanja) keluarga & saudara mara, bersedekah kepada golongan fakir & miskin tanpa takalluf (membebankan diri).
Kita dah masuk Hari Asyura!
Pulak malam ni malam jumaat.. akan berakhir pada jumaat petang esok.
Meh kita save doa2 mustajab untuk dibaca mlm ni.
Allah Maha mendengar akan setiap rintihan hamba2 Nya. Gabungkan sekali dengan sedekah, ia antara amalan utama hari Asyura dan penarik rezeki.
Semoga segala kebaikan, doa, dan harapan yang dipanjatkan dikabulkan serta diberkahi, wahai yang maha mengabulkan doa 🤲
Sesiapa yang membuatkan kita perlu berusaha untuk mendapatkan cintanya atau kasih sayangnya, sebenarnya tidak mencintai atau menyayangi kita
Love is free
Should not be transactional
Baca selanjutnya di bawah ni
Anybody who makes you earn their love doesn't love you.
Love is a gift. It's freely given. You can't transact your way to it the way you can transact your way to a promotion or a good grade. The very thing that makes love love is that it isn't conditional. The moment it becomes conditional, it stops being love and becomes something else. Approval, perhaps. Or maybe usefulness. Worth a great deal, sure, but not love.
The people who get this wrong are usually the people who are good at earning things. Strivers. If you've spent your life learning how to earn every reward the world offers, you'll bring that machinery to your most important relationships. You'll work harder. You'll be more useful. You'll perform. You'll people-please.
The truth is, people-pleasing is outsourcing your self-worth. You're letting other people decide what you're worth and adjusting until they tell you the answer you want. If they like me, I'm okay. If they don't, I'm not. That's a brutal contract to live under… and the worst part is you signed it yourself.
Most people who do this learned it in childhood. Somewhere along the line, they processed the lesson that love is conditional — that affection had to be earned through good grades, good behavior, the right kind of smile. So they kept earning. They became excellent at it, and they never stopped.
Stop confusing love with approval. Keep loving the people in your life; just stop trying to win them. Insource your sense of who you are. Receive what's freely given. When somebody requires payment, pay attention.