Being a mother is so much more draining and harder than being a father, to the extent that I truly don’t think a man could understand. With that being said, it’s so hard to even be a bad father if you're trying 🤦🏾♂️💯. Like, you can literally be doing the bare minimum, like getting the kid one or two full weekends out of the month to give the mother a break, just showing up for school/sporting events, being available and reliable, and it would go a long way in the kid's mind. It really doesn’t have to be hard; some men are just sorry excuses 🚮.
Pregnancy gets 9 months of attention. Labor gets a hospital stay. Postpartum gets one 15 minute checkup at 6 weeks.
But postpartum is the longest medical event of your life. Your hormones don't return to baseline for at least 6 months (longer if you are BF). Your pelvic floor takes a year (at least). Your bone density takes longer. Your brain is remodeling itself for years. You're metabolically recovering for as long as you breastfeed.
We have completely undercounted what this season actually is. And too many women are doing it all alone.
As a parent I’d NEVERRRRR tell my kids “I’m not coming to get you” or “find you a way home” IDC IDC.. Rain, snow, hail. 3pm or 3am, I’m coming for mine! PERIOD!!
NBA Youngboy’s Wife Jazlyn Mychelle’s Sisters; Chy, kaliente and Asia caught up to Youngboy’s 6th Baby Mama Iyanna Mayweather aka Money Yaya In Houston After her Own Birthday Party and Beat her up.. once again yaya didn’t buss a grape 🍇 just like when Kayylmariee and Pimpceecee beat her up at the Westin in dallas.
For Floyd mayweather to be yaay father! She sure can’t fight and out here embarrassing her daddy’s legacy😭😭
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As you get older you realise that first red flag that you ignored will be the reason you break up 2 years later.
And you will regret not walking away that first time.