bpd ruins your life bc of a lot of things, but also bc you’re taught that any negative emotion you ever feel is unreasonable even when it is completely justified. So you keep forgiving and forgiving over and over again because you’re not allowed to stand up for yourself
I NEED SOMEONE TO PUT THEIR FINGERS IN MY MOUTH TO SHUT ME UP… PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE