That was my biggest argument, last night. If you’re involved in some dysfunctional or non traditional shit, I get your stance. It is what it is, sometimes. However, just because you’re involved in some bullshit, you can’t project your fucked up situation on the masses. Adults in healthy parenting situations, don’t even hesitate on informing their coparent on a new addition to the family. Like what????? This is the simplest thing, it’s not even thought provoking, at all.
@bi6Esha@MrVicBam No, your point doesn’t stand. Y’all are being just as toxic as mom and involving the child to do yall dirty work. What are you not getting?
@bi6Esha@MrVicBam What? You are PROJECTING. And yes. We established yall were scared. That’s NOT healthy and that’s literally the point here. If mom is so scary, why did yall leave it for the child to communicate??
@bi6Esha@MrVicBam The point is, you left it for a child to communicate what adults should’ve been able to. Sound like you and dad were scared so yall were happy letting the child do it for yall. The CHILD chose not to. And shouldn’t have had to either.
Y’all do not own people. Once you break up with someone, they do not have to tell you they’re every fucking move. Y’all are too controlling when it comes to people that you only have children with. That’s not your husband. His child was informed that he had a sibling. That baby is not related to you. Mind yall fucking business.
@bi6Esha@MrVicBam You’re projecting now. If you don’t want the other BM to know, don’t tell her child. Y’all weird af. So now yall asking seven year olds to keep secrets for yall??????? Why even have a baby with a man who has a Babymama in the first place?
@bi6Esha@MrVicBam Soooo you think by telling the CHILD, that he won’t go back and tell his mom? Like exactly what the child did. Y’all think children will also keep this hidden for yall? Once again, placing adult shit on children
First off I am a wife and don’t have any baby fathers so please watch who the fuck you’re talking to. Y’all niggas so used to living fucked up dysfunctional lives and having fucked up dynamics that normal coparenting is a taboo. I’m sorry your basic bird brain ass can’t comprehend. 🤷🏽♀️
I don’t think yall are understanding how insane it is to say it’s an accomplishment because you carried a baby full term/ had a healthy baby and other women can’t. Like that’s a really insensitive crazy thing to say