๐Freedom of speech does NOT include hate speech or lies!
๐Free Speech CAN be countered
๐Opinions ARE NOT FACTS
๐FACTS ARE derived from research gathered from MULTIPLE SOURCES or on actual Scientific TESTS that are peer reviewed! #ThePolyMatchMaker#science#math
Let's talk about Section 230. If all www's are now 100% liable for content on their sites & anyone can claim it's objectionable to them for whatever reason, watch how fast your favorite sites will either, change their Terms or shut down. 230 needs work yes, but not ended!
Dear reader (I have always wanted to type that). Depending on certain changes that may arise on Twitter, I am considering going to IG full time. Right now, I post only once in a while. Do consider adding me if you use Instagram. IG = @PolyMatchMaker xoxo #ThePolyMatchMaker
Ghosting happens far too often. I wish there was more education focused on how to interact with intention. Also, how to express oneself in a way as not to demean, yet stay true to self. While no one owes anyone an explanation, a "no thank you" should be enough & acceptable.
Went to the dentist today, sign on the door clearly stated "mask required while in waiting room." Bad blonde dye-job walks in, sits down, huffs, & refuses. A person like this who can't take responsibility on how they affect others, can't do #Polyamory.
๐Them before me! โฅ๏ธโฅ๏ธโฅ๏ธโฅ๏ธ
@OpeningUp_LizS Liz - First, bravo for admitting your feelings. Have you shared them with the hubs? Have you both tried to see where those feelings are coming from? Lots of layers to one word, jealousy. Layers may include fears of abandonment, self-worth, or even underlying competition. Hugs.
Stop blaming others for things that YOU SHOULD HAVE DONE in advance like read, investigate, research, review, prepare, and analyze. Just because you chose the fast lane for a slow journey is not anyone else's fault but your own! #ThePolyMatchMaker#polyamory#openrelationships
Let's talk about triggering words or phrases. They can cause emotional stress due to PSD, depression & any number of reasons. The trick on how to avoid triggering someone is to ask them if they have any conversational boundaries. Simple.#ThePolyMatchMaker#datingadvice#polyamory
"Exploring" should be used when going on a trip. It is not appropriate when dealing of matters of the heart & mind.
Try reframing your thoughts to "learning." As in "I'm researching & learning about #polyamory."
The process of learning is progress & intension.
#ThePolyMatchMaker
Red Flags in #Poly
- If it takes them days to text/call back w/o prior notice
- You aren't invited to meet their other significant other(s)
- They don't want to meet in public even if PDA is out of the question
YOU ARE WORTH MORE! #ThePolyMatchMaker#polyamory#polyamorous
When I'm interested in someone, I state upfront that I have the ability, & #desire, to form multiple meaningful connections with more than one person at a time. Clarity saves me so much time (& headaches) later. xoxo #ThePolyMatchMaker#polyamory#swinger#openrelationships
There are people in this world that just want a fight. They thrive in angry chaos, they are the fire starters who aim to inflict an emotional toll. I don't have time for that and, dear reader, neither do you! #ThePolyMatchMaker#datingapp#datingadvice#walkaway#polyamory
Learning how to be an effective negotiator when it comes to starting or continuing a #polyamorous relationship is important. If you are a good negotiator, this type of #relationship will be much easier to navigate. If you don't like change, #poly isn't for you #ThatPolyMatchMaker
Splitting up your time & focus into bite-sized chunks is not healthy for you & ineffective when building intimate connections. When you are with someone, 100% of your focus should be on them & your plans. Partners deserve this. #ThePolyMatchMaker#polydating#dating#polyamory