As a man, after you cross 30, sit down and study the patterns in your family. Look at what distracted, delayed, or derailed the men before you. Look at what destroyed them. Your father, his brothers, your uncles, older cousins etc... is it booze, is it gambling, is it women, is it recklessly siring everywhere, is it poor financial decisions, did they struggle with deep anger issues, domestic terrorists, did they practice witchcraft and all that.
Sit down and study those patterns,, then make intentional decisions to break those cycles. Remember some of these things are normal vices. Look for a recurring or deep recognizable patterns that are plastered all over men in your family. What brought them down. Do you see a pattern? Now that!
As Joshua Selman always says “As a man, number one thing that will help you live to your potential is knowing what can bring you down”. And you may not run away from your family tree. Refuse to be a victim of repeated patterns. Because they are there.
Whether you know it or not. Whether you recognize them or you don’t. They exist. They didn’t have the knowledge and resources we now have. Honor your progeny. Break out of them. Be made of Gold.
@ivymuthe@Mercynicky_ Every school dormitory should have modern emergency exit doors with panic bars that open instantly during emergencies, stay secured from outside access, and trigger alarms when used. Fire-rated exits, emergency lighting, and clear escape routes are essential.
SOME OF THE COLDEST BRO TO BRO CODE YOU NEED TO KNOW;
1) never eat where your mother is mocked
2. never judge your father until you become a man.
3. never mock a brother to entertain the table
4. we might eat late but I promise, we will eat
5. world is so cruel to a poor man
6. You are independent, only mom can love you without conditions
7. We are not behind, we just didn’t get it handed to us.
8. Show up everyday to fix your life. Do it alone, do it tired, do it scared, do it broke, do it anyway. Just find a way!
9. And when you become their type, Don’t date them!
10.Bro to bro: I want to see you win!🫵🏽
Share some bro code you know, for others to learn!
Men go home to silence. No one asks how their day was, no one checks if they are okay. And still, they wake up the next day and do it all again. That’s being a man.
Keep your babies safe.
As we approach elections, wicked politicians are rushing to offer human sacrifices to their gods in return for a hypnotised society and electoral victory.
Major cheat code for life: Be fully where your feet are. When you're at work, work. When you're with family, be with family. When you're resting, rest. Most people are physically present and mentally everywhere else.
One day, you will pay school fees, hospital bills, and salaries.
You will stay awake calculating figures while others sleep peacefully.
It is the day you will realize your father carried a weight you never understood.
Now it is your turn,
The burden is heavy, but it is SACRED.
Your FATHER carried it, now carry it for your son.
Men,
Pray for your fellow men.
I do this every morning.
Men are silently in pain.
A man might look jovial but, he is in pain, tears, betrayal, struggles, and wasted years.
If we hold a man's hand, and light up his dream, we are lighting up the future.
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