Anytime I hear preachers say "I LOVE TO PREACH!" that never impresses me. So what? You may just like the attention & adrenaline rush. Instead, what I want to know is: Do you LOVE THE PEOPLE you preach to? That's what really matters. Without love, it's just noise. 1 Cor. 13:1
How to possess the highest amount of influence in every relational dynamic: always do the right thing and always deescalate conflict with calm respect.
Listen my Pastor friends, you can talk about 'humility' all day long but if your entire ecosystem of church props up your voice, features your face, places you on the stage, gives you the mic, and makes you the resident expert... you're going to have a big ego.