Finally making the leap. Keeping the account to keep up with those who’ve chosen to stay, but I personally just can’t take it anymore. If I know you here and you’re also -there-, pls come find me or leave your deets in the comments. Excelsior!
@pukeuprainbows Without Medicare, I stand to die a protracted and exceedingly uncomfortable death. Because I can’t afford insulin without Medicare. I’m only 53, dammit, and it looks like I’m going to die because of this doddering lunatic. I wish I could say I’m just being hyperbolic.
@angel_0f_deathx *chef’s kiss*
My -goodness-, yours is the face that launched a thousand fantasies. I’ll never be in your league but a pookah can dream, by Gumby.
If anyone needs me, I’ll be in my bunk.
@broadwaybabyto No means “no”.
It does not mean “possibly yes if you try harder.”
And it PARTICULARLY doesn’t mean “no, but if you can’t handle rejection then I suppose you’d better put me in my place, eh?”
It seems such an obvious thing, and yet men still continue to read the wrong memo.
@JohnBoyThinks@iamAtheistGirl Quite simply, a negative can never be proven, so asking questions like “can you prove G-d DOESN’T exist” is a waste of time and energy and will get you absolutely nowhere except probably mocked.
@SleepingVirtue@ask_aubry I’ve quite often had to assure lovers that they aren’t to blame for my impotence; it breaks my heart how often this happens, because I have to wonder what sort of low self-esteem messaging these women have received to make them assume such responsibility by default.
@SleepingVirtue@ask_aubry Just don’t assume either way! If she brings it up then answer honestly, and if she doesn’t don’t try to second-guess; that way lies madness and heartbreak. Even with casual encounters, communication is everything. :-)
@SleepingVirtue@ask_aubry Don’t go on mere “hunch” here; ASK her how much it actually matters to her. Because I’ve had ED since adolescence and my lovers have never complained about my usual inability to “finish”; If they mention it at all, it’s to express concern that -I-might not emotionally satisfied.
@Kissmyazz24 Fair enough. I’m sorry to hear that’s the case; I still don’t understand what she means by “public property.” Is it because the left supports voluntary sex-work more than the right?