it’s crazy to me that so many straight people just completely settle because they literally have their pick for the most part. But I will rarely see a straight couple genuinely in love like I do a lot of queer couples. not to say queer people don’t settle.
@Callicius333 happy pride to the identity police glad to see yall aren’t taking any days off. there will always be trans MEN who identifies as Butch and you can cry and you can seeth on Twitter but nothing is going to amount to the work that they’ve done for the community irl.
@Callicius333 people in their 20s and teens are the ones to do this shit and they quite frankly do not know anything. they do not know lifelong lesbians that come out as trans men later in life and still feel connected to the label because of how much work they did for it. Touch grass.
@bunnytangereen@zu2jin you can’t deem shit for other people or their bodies. no i see how you guys act on here and tear people to shreds, that is close enough for me
@bunnytangereen@zu2jin because you don’t just care abt YOUR calories. you’re expressly doing it to feel better than other ppl. to look down on fat people and people with a healthy bfp that aren’t so wrapped up in patriarchal and pedophilic beauty standards to literally starve themselves
not wanting to be friends with someone is not bullying/oppression. if someone doesn’t like you, It’s better that they just leave you alone, for everyone. so many discourses boil down to”u MUST want to be my friend/love me” when comments are being made, that’s a whole new issue
The thing that mean-girl type women don’t seem to get is that those of us who grew up with mean moms who were mean to us our whole lives can be meaner than them if we want to. We choose not to be for the most part but if you want to go low we can always take it to hell.
Most women aren’t going to kill you though. But they’ll try to kill your spirit. They will socially alienate and annihilate you, they will put you through severe psychological warfare that causes you to go into isolation. Women who play social games are dangerous.
2. cishet (most) women are not kind and friendly to me necessary they very much see me as a freak, at least where i live, in small town America. all of my friends are queer anyway it’s just a funny thing i’ve noticed.
the “you have to have friends that are girlies or else you’re a raging 4chan incel” discourse is funny asf bc 1. they’re not considering ppl like me (butch lesbians) at all in this convo and
@TheRetome@freezethesaint you don’t know me fucking weirdo. you’re very strange for going through my page while i’m trying to have a fucking good faith discussion. maybe you need some self awareness. suck my cock😘
@TheRetome@freezethesaint yeah, but I don’t understand why people care enough to call them a narcissist like I’m sure they’re just as multifaceted as the rest of us human beings. We don’t know this person..
@anessbelbati@freezethesaint well, I guess it is a little self-centered to say. Sometimes I think I’m self-aware but I think I’m just hypercritical of myself. Still I don’t think being self-centered is completely the worst in this context like I think OP is being meaner than necessary.
@freezethesaint I have a hard time, believing most of the people that agree with this sentiment went into the video (if they watched it at all, which I’m sure most did not including OP perhaps) with a super unbiased outlook. Like you look for a problem and there it is… perhaps projection
@freezethesaint I don’t understand this mentality of seeing someone make an observation about themself and then immediately dismissing it without knowing them at all like do you think you’re super self-aware then? just confused what the lesson here is except “never say you are self-aware”
A lot of Americans have a problem with someone not liking them first. I don’t know if it’s cultural or if everyone has this problem in the world, but people don’t like the notion that you might have a problem with them before they have a problem with you like it hurts their pride
also, I think having a righteous reason and having an understandable reason is a little different. I think that people need to be more comfortable with being disliked. Even if it’s not justified. Try to put yourself in the other person’s shoes and you why they feel that way tho