YouFirstBabyGirl

Registerd Nurse💉•Daughter•Carer•Introvert•Kind•Funny•Lover •Stubborn.

[Luna M ✨ @tiredfeminist_]

This thing is so simple. Side chicks do not owe the wife any loyalty, and wives do not owe the side chick any kindness or inclusion when they decide to procreate with married men. If you are knowingly sleeping with a married man, and have no regard for his wife, if fall pregnant don’t expect her to have any regard for you or the child you bring into the situation. It may not make sense to us but how people decide to navigate and negotiate their marriages and forgiving their partners is between the partners, unfortunately they don’t have to extend any of that kindness to anyone else, even if we feel like it’s the moral thing to do. The only person who should be expected to extend any love or care is the father.

[kgadi♠️ @Kgadi_yaMoloto]

I just watched a podcast of a gynaecologist and fertility specialist and she says women who run marathons don’t ovulate and apparently running decreases the chances of pregnancy . The way I'm going to start running after winter people will think that I'm a mad woman.😌

[YouFirstBabyGirl @PoposkiMpho]

@SizweDhlomo @LekauSehoana O

[Miyandy @Amahashi_]

I worked 20 years for a child sex trafficking rescue group. I want you to know this:

90% of Lost Children Are Found Within 30 Minutes.

That statistic should both comfort you and wake you up.

Most lost children are found quickly. But the ones who aren’t? They usually made one mistake.

And here’s the uncomfortable truth:

It’s often the exact thing most parents teach them.

We tell our kids:

“If you get lost, come find me.”

It sounds logical. It sounds empowering.

It’s WRONG!

The Mistake Most Lost Children Make:

When children realize they’re separated, they do three things almost automatically:

They panic.
They wander.
They try to find you.

Every step makes them harder to locate.

From a search standpoint, movement creates chaos.

Parents retrace their steps.
Security scans zones.
Staff lock down areas.

Search works best when movement stops.

When a child keeps walking, they move outside the original search radius. Helpers are looking where they were last seen — not where they’ve wandered.

Stillness increases probability.

Movement expands the problem.

The first lesson is not “go find me.”

It’s this:

Stop. Stay. Yell.

Why Stillness Wins:

Think like a search team.

If a child stays put:

Parents can retrace steps.
Security can scan systematically.
Helpers converge to one fixed location.
The search radius remains small.
If a child keeps moving:

The search area expands.
Adults pass each other.
Missed connections multiply.
Minutes stretch into hours.
Stillness keeps the math on your side.

Teach Them Who to Approach:

The second mistake we make as parents?

We say, “Find an adult.”

Not any adult. Not the nearest stranger. Children need a filter.

Teach them to look for, if at all possible:

A mother with children.

Caregivers who already have kids with them are statistically among the safest people to approach in public settings. They are visible, stationary, and more likely to engage quickly.

It’s a clear, concrete instruction.

Children don’t process vague categories like “safe adult.”

They process visuals.

“Find a mom with kids” is visual.

A Phone Only Helps If the Number Is Known:

We often assume phones solve everything.

They don’t — unless your child can use one. Even young children can memorize a 10-digit phone number with repetition.

But you must train it.

Practice it like a song.

Sing it in the car.
Chant it at bedtime.
Turn it into rhythm.

Repetition becomes recall.

In an emergency, recall matters more than theory.

The Code Word Rule:

One more layer of protection.

Choose a private family code word.

Something only your household knows.

If someone approaches and says:

“Your mom sent me.”

Your child asks:

“What’s the code word?”

No word.
No go.

This simple rule eliminates manipulation attempts instantly.

It gives your child agency without requiring them to evaluate character.

Real Safety Is Training — Not Luck!

We don’t get safer by hoping.

We get safer by practicing.

Teach:

• Phone number
• Code word
• Stop, stay, yell
• Find a mom with kids

Multiple skills.
Simple instructions.
Clear visuals.

Five minutes of training can replace hours of panic. This isn’t about fear. It’s about preparation.

Because when a child gets separated, the clock starts.

And what they do in the first minute determines what the next thirty look like.

That’s real protection.

[🌸❤️ @oddettem]

Dear ladies never forget that: The same world that shames me for being a single mother also shames you for not being a mother and shames another woman for having too many children..lt shames one woman for having a child at the age of 19 because she's too young but also shames another for having at 36 because she's too old..lt shames a woman who marries young as well as the one who marries old..It shames women who don't have beautiful bodies and shames those who go under the knife to get the bodies. This world shames all women, not a single one of us is spared, not a single one. So love and make yourselves happy.

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[YouFirstBabyGirl @PoposkiMpho]

@Alucia_Mhlongo @Tammy_thee_Godd @Mo_Magoda I know of a certain NGO that goes back and tests known HIV positives clients just to get a positive client for the day. They especially target Nyaope addicts.

[YouFirstBabyGirl @PoposkiMpho]

@1MagicTV I’m

[YouFirstBabyGirl @PoposkiMpho]

@nyaneann @ntsikimazwai Guys!! This man stole my iPhone 12 Pro Max in Bronkhorstspruit pretending to call is sister!

[YouFirstBabyGirl @PoposkiMpho]

@maryjaneexplore Booked it once. It was never the yacht pictured for the champagne package. Was told a story about too many people booked so we must use another one. Specially the one you posted

[YouFirstBabyGirl @PoposkiMpho]

@Yeyethu_Baballo @Shado46758831 Cima cima!!

[B N S L @_BNSL]

Your gran was taught that a woman holds the knife at the sharp end. This generation understands that handles make more sense.

[YouFirstBabyGirl @PoposkiMpho]

@supershyness They work with the police, cause after a day they disappear from the hospital without being discharged. How do you escape under police guard and handcuffed?

[YouFirstBabyGirl @PoposkiMpho]

@jojo5122 @thee_adv I used to work at the hospital there. Police would arrest them then bring the sickly one’s to be checked on. One cried when he tested positive for HIV, wondering what will he tell his wife. He disclosed that he was raped while underground by another Zama Zama

[YouFirstBabyGirl @PoposkiMpho]

@Nicholas__Banda The energy you had typing your response.
Just block and move on.

[YouFirstBabyGirl @PoposkiMpho]

@PholosoM_ I cried when I got chicken pox at the age of 23, was doing my Nursing practicals and my shift leader forced me to nurse a patient with it after I told him, I’ve never had chicken pox. Woke up the following morning with two spots on my forehead and with a crazy fever. Got admitted