GENTS, PLS PLS PLS.
I understand we have a lot of +234 women have developed a terrible PR online/offline when it comes to relationships, billing, entitlement, selfishness and unrealistic expectations.
But please, don’t make the mistake of believing every woman is like that.
WE LEGIT HAVE GOOD, INTENTIONAL AND LOYAL WOMEN.
Women who genuinely care about their men. Women who don’t see every relationship as a financial transaction. Women who support, respect, communicate, sacrifice and actually want to build something meaningful with you.
The internet will constantly show you the worst examples because outrage gets engagement. You’ll see 10 terrible relationship stories and start believing that the entire gender is finished.
Don’t let social media make you suspicious of someone who has given you every reason to trust her.
If you have a good woman, appreciate her. If your relationship is healthy, protect it. Don’t punish a good person for the sins of strangers you’ve never met.
The internet can teach you what to avoid, but it shouldn’t teach you to hate what you already have.
THE WHORES out there are not your women except you have seen things…
Be guided gents.
Men on this app talk about women like they don’t have sisters at home and women on this app talk about men like they don’t have brothers at home,
Are you people excluding your siblings from certain derogatory generalization?
I hate this YouTubification and lagosification of Nigerian movies.
Give me a sensible storyline, give me a prequel, give me a sequel, tell me a fiction, give me mindblowing diversity of stories .
Stop this reusing of Youtube actors.
So tired and exhausting.
To the youth, I need y’all to hear me. There were times in my life when I felt lost and couldn’t see beyond what was right in front of me. I know how deeply your environment and surroundings can influence the way you think, the choices you make, and what you believe is possible for your life, but they don’t have to determine who you become.
Growth is real, and it’s never too late to choose a different direction.
My responsibility is to use my voice and my platform to build, motivate, and create more opportunities for the next generation. That work didn’t start today, and it won’t stop here.
Choose your future. Choose your family. Choose growth.
I’m standing with y’all. We’re moving forward with purpose. ❤️
Saw a post where someone said “Dear God, don’t let me spend the rest of my life celebrating other people’s answered prayers while mine remain silent.” I had to read it again to understand how deep that prayer point is.
The reality of no one is coming to safe you should ring rigousrouly regardless of how you feel. Your discipline should be more than motivation and pain should a subtle reminder rather than punishment. Pray and move your feet.