🧠 Things to teach your kids from today;
♟️ Chess
🩹 First aid
💪 Resilience
🌌 Astronomy
🗣️ Persuasion
🔄 Adaptability
🪞 Self-respect
🥋 Self-defence
🍳 Cooking skills
📢 Assertiveness
⏰ Managing time
🙂 A good attitude
🎤 Public speaking
🧩 Problem solving
🔍 Self-awareness
🌱 Gardening skills
🤝 How to volunteer
🤝 How to negotiate
🏕️ Living off the land
🛠️ Basic home repair
🚀 Starting a business
💰 Money management
💬 Good communication
📵 Don’t watch the news
❤️ Emotional intelligence
🧘 How to manage stress
🚗 Basic car maintenance
⚖️ How to make a decision
🎯 How to influence people
👩👧 How to be a great mother
💭 It’s okay to feel your emotions
🧠 Mental frameworks for thinking
💞 Understanding healthy relationships
🌟 Building others up, not tearing them down
🧩 Problem-solving over memorization
🧭 Exploration over conformity
🎨 Creativity over rote learning
🏋️ The value of hard work
🤍 How to be kind to everyone
🚧 Why failure is the path to success
🧠 How to think, not what to think
🔄 How to adapt, not conform
🦁 How to lead, not follow
🛠️ How to create, not consume
🐾 Taking care of animals
🗣️ Good use of language
👫 Opposite sex relationships
🥗 Healthy food choices
🎵 Music, listening and performing
🌍 General culture
🗺️ Foreign languages
👑 Leadership
🗿 Stoicism
🌙 Fasting
🏃 Sports
🎮 Video games
🕉️ Spirituality
✈️ Travelling
✍️ Copywriting
🎨 Drawing
💖 Self-love
🧾 Digital literacy
🔐 Online safety & privacy
🤖 AI basics
📚 Reading habits
🧠 Critical thinking
📊 Financial discipline
🌍 Environmental responsibility
🧑🤝🧑 Empathy
🛌 Sleep hygiene
⚖️ Ethics & integrity
What more would you add?
A man who only wants bedroom access but refuses daily leadership is not masculine.
He is entitled.
A woman who uses sex as punishment instead of addressing resentment is not powerful.
She is sabotaging the bond.
My grandmother has evolved so much since we’ve been having church; hanging out in the mall and having Starbucks - she’s, now, a more mild mannered Sagg -
and my only friend, but she’s rich so I don’t mind although talking to her sometimes I feel like I’m Nemo and she’s Dory
My mission for the summer is to recruit some friends for Amir he’s smarter than all the children around him and needs real stimulation a summer camp or a dog 🐶
You suddenly see: every time you were right, they gaslighted you. Every time you tried to leave, they love bombed you. Every time you doubted yourself, they reinforced the doubt. This wasn’t random. This was systematic. And now you see the system.
People truly look at you as an antidote. You are medicine to these folks. You are seen as THE CURE to so many people because when they had you in their lives, so many things were working for them. They had their minds in tact, their health up to par, their finances flowing and they were moving around abundant bc they were wearing your energy. They were swapping their karma for your for a LONG time. Since you’ve reclaimed your authority and divine inheritance, it’s not happening anymore. Now that you’re gone, these people are suffering without you but will NEVER admit this. Instead, they are scheming, plotting and casting spells trying to manipulate your energy to lower your defenses and STEAL this energy from you. (This is why they wait until you’re sleep to attack you). In the 3D this looks like ppl trying to have sex with you in the astrals, trying to feed you things to attatch them to you, and even doing things around you to rattle your nervous system in the hopes they can lower your vibration. Protect your energy from these vampires because they’re not only desperate, they’re crafty and they are doing A N Y T H I N G to get back into your energetic field.
If your husband says “just tell me what to do”… that is not leadership.
That is outsourcing cognition.
Leadership means seeing needs before they become assignments.
Survivors say it constantly: I allowed them to treat me that way. I let it happen. I should have stood up for myself.
No. You didn’t allow it. You endured it. And the difference between those two words is everything.
Allowing implies you had full information and free choice. You had neither. You had a carefully distorted version of reality, built through years of gaslighting. And you had a nervous system that had been conditioned, violation by violation, to understand that protesting made things worse.
Because you did stand up for yourself. In the beginning. Remember? And you learned exactly what happened when you did: the rage. The punishment. The silent treatment. The escalation. The three-day storm that followed any boundary you tried to set.
Your compliance wasn’t consent. It was a calculated response to danger. Your silence wasn’t permission. It was survival.
Here’s the trap survivors fall into: auditing their past behavior with their present clarity. You look back at what you accepted and you judge yourself by what you can see now. But the person you are now, the one who sees the pattern, who knows the vocabulary, who understands the code, that person didn’t exist back then. They made sure of it.
Judging your past self with your current knowledge is unfair to the person who got you out. That version of you was operating in a fog, with incomplete information, against a professional manipulator. And that version of you still found the way out.
That’s not someone who allowed abuse. That’s someone who survived it.
Stop waiting for them to say ‘you’re right.’ Your reality doesn’t depend on their agreement. You know what happened. You know what it cost you. That knowing is enough.