Zambians are angry at the wrong damn things sometimes.
There I was driving to church this morning, I was genuinely feeling good & smiling.
Pama humps, the car heading the opposite direction, driver looks at me & says
"Useka Chani Chikala?"
I am not a man. I will never be a man. So I don’t want to act like a man and I don’t want to be the aggressive, stubborn and hell-raising modern woman. I want to be soft and feminine, yet powerful. I want to inspire, not demand. And I want his authority, strength and leadership.