Men have new skill sets to be taught and learn to live fulfilling lives. What it means to lead and love and partner and thrive requires a different set of tools than before and the social friction of that realization is what people are feeling/witnessing. There’s resistance.
My principal always says that when he’s out with his daughter, ppl stop him, smile & say the kindest things about him being a good dad like he cured world hunger
He says “they are praising me for just being with my kid. That low expectation is not a compliment”