Experience gives a man a vision that height cannot.
What a wise man sees while sitting down, another may never see, even from the top of the tallest tree. 🎥🥀
@DrMedhaVNaik@Rathatreya_ Wonderful point if rationally speaking, however there are ample of strota, mantra and upvas for female to get a good a good husband. But yes I do get your point, one shouldn't worry nature is the ultimate judge and eventually third class males will get such females only.
Remember story of Arjun during bad & humiliating times
Arjun, probably greatest of men had to live like an Eunuch for an entire year in court of a mediocre king
Imagine the insults & pain he must have gone through
So there are times, when life turns u into Eunuch
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Vastu hack #510
Traditional architecture featured high ceiling. This large overhead space allowed the element of Space to expand freely. This element controls clear thinking, big-picture vision, and career growth.
Modern buildings use false ceilings to hide wires and ducts. Lowering the ceiling creates a heavy, flat box right above our heads, filled with active electrical wiring.
A lowered ceiling crushes the Space element. Instead of room for your energy to grow upward, you are blocked by a dense web of artificial frequencies and trapped air. Professionally, this physical pressure acts like a glass ceiling. It limits your career growth, causes you to get stuck in micromanagement, and disrupts your ability to see the bigger picture.
Since you cannot remove the false ceiling, you must artificially clear the heavy energy.
1. Get a solid, polished copper pyramid.
2. Place it on the highest piece of furniture in your workspace, pointing straight up at the ceiling.
3. Put a small, warm-light LED spotlight next to the pyramid, shining a tight beam of light directly above it.
4. Light naturally rises. Pointing this light and copper energy upward creates a virtual skylight. This breaks through the heavy pressure of the lowered ceiling and reopens the space for clear thinking and professional authority.
Vastu Hack #509
Traditional beds used natural materials like cotton, wool, or coir. These fibers allowed your body to stay connected to the Earth's natural energy while you slept.
Memory foam is made from chemicals and carries heavy Rahu energy. It acts like a shield, blocking your body from natural grounding and trapping static electricity and heat against your skin.
You do not have to throw away an expensive mattress. Instead, place a thick blanket made of pure wool or heavy organic cotton flat on the mattress, right under your fitted bedsheet. This natural layer absorbs static and reconnects your body to natural energy.
Vastu Hack #508
In the past, people left their shoes outside and washed their feet before crossing the main entrance. The dirty, chaotic energy from the street never entered the living space.
Apartment living forces us to keep shoe racks indoors. We place a cabinet full of dirt and negative street energy right at the main entrance, which is the exact place where the home takes in fresh energy.
If you must keep your shoe cabinet inside, make sure it has solid doors that close completely instead of open racks. To clear the negative energy, put a small, open glass bowl of raw sea salt on the bottom shelf. The salt absorbs the heavy energy. Replace the salt every two weeks.
It is important to be practical and pragmatic in life.
And not confuse spirituality with control over a spirit.
Situation:
There is a small painting you want to hang on the wall. There is a nail and a hammer beside you. Now you want that the painting should hang on that nail on the wall.
BUT, instead of hammering the nail into the wall, you decide to sit for an anusthana to make it happen!!!
Now…. will the painting hang on the wall? Just like that? In a supernatural fashion?
Of course not.
You can spend 5 years doing Anusthanas or 10 or more but nothing will happen.
Now, you decide that normal Devatas won’t do this sort of thing and so you are adamant that the painting you want to hang on the wall must hang in a supernatural fashion.
So you learn a sadhana to control a spirit…. adamant you see … and lo and behold that thing does your bidding and you get the painting hung in a supernatural fashion.
Now…. over one year, your ego advances no end. You confuse control over a minor spirit with being spiritual.
Now… you decide to trouble people. That person who slighted you… let’s show them …. that woman who rejected you…. let’s show them…. and so on.
So you take the help of a spirit now to fulfil the basest desires of your ego.
Now… the woman who slighted you suddenly goes and leaves her husband and child. The husband takes to drink and soon commits suicide… at the betrayal.
The child falls into mental illness…. because you want to fulfil your desires.
The woman is besotted with you and cannot spend a moment without you.
Your Brahmacharya and anusthanas are all gone and having attained fame and what not … you just enjoy yourself the entire time.
You see…. this situation is there because one could not be practical and one mistook control of a spirit with actually being spiritual.
Anyway…. after this your desire wanes and you decide to do more and more stupid things. But one day the spirit gets fed up. And even a minor spirit has terrific power on earth.
That spirit suddenly asks you to do something failing which they will stop being under your control.
Now…. you are in a daze. Neither you can fulfil that wish neither you want to let go.
Now… that spirit leaves but before leaving they do something so that the woman realises what has happened. Now the woman suddenly comes to her senses and leaves. She literally runs away.
But that’s not all. The painting crashes to the ground. The money disappears almost overnight…. somehow the spirit influences two three people to malign you.
Now you are over.
Khaya piya kuch nahi glass toda bara anna!
This scenario is if you are lucky. Usually people end up being in control of the spirit.
So lesson?
1. Be practical and pragmatic and work for a living.
2. Don’t confuse spirituality with getting control of a spirit.
3. Don’t run after people who promise you such stupidity stuff. Mostly it won’t work. But if it does also you could be ruined!
India produces boys by the crores - they have degrees, and a smartphone in every palm, even gig jobs if not formal jobs.
But it has stopped actively forming them into adults of respectable standing in society.
A whole generation is credentialed, employed, and even sending money home. But nobody anywhere is telling them how to actually become an adult.
Industrialising societies typically gave a more structured way into adulthood for its boys
- apprenticeships, union lodges, night school, and working men's club
- India's own version too had the guru's household and the akhara
But India's own institutions have been dismantled across the colonial and post-Independence century, replaced by nothing of equal weight.
- and India is getting into gig economy types before entirely industrialising
Instead we have:
-coaching mills. 15 lakh engineering grads a year, only a fourth employable
-gig platforms with millions of workers. They're supervised by software, men are isolated by design.
- worse. they have smartphones pulling them into gambling, reels etc
The bill we pay: marriage, a household, owning property - all of it has been deferred into late thirties. Delayed adulthood has several second order effects.
Forming responsible adults out of boys and girls is a project in itself that needs elders, institutions and rituals to mark the transition. We have so few of these for our kids today.
Swarajya essay here 👇
https://t.co/RM3qCAMK55
The harshest truth is that external validation is a fragile foundation, no matter how much support (genuine or surface-level) you have around you. If you don’t learn how to rely on yourself, you are doing your own life a profound disservice.
Because when shit truly hits the fan, the reality of human nature kicks in. No one, not even the people closest to you, can or will support you to get back up the way you must do for yourself. Everyone has their own fires to fight. You have to be your own rescue team.
When you shift from seeking outside validation to becoming the primary source of your own validation, everything changes. You unlock a deep trust in your own intuition. You begin to discern people and situations at the highest level because your vision isn't clouded by a need for approval.
Most importantly, it forces radical self-accountability. True growth requires the willingness to ruthlessly self-edit, to look at your own flaws, learn from the pain, and actively choose not to repeat your past mistakes.
Your relationship with yourself is the only permanent infrastructure you have. Build it well.