I totally support the idea of removing the concept of arranged marriages in India.
Let's understand the sequence of events.
1. Once arranged marriage concept ends, the men with game will get the girls, because girls get wooed first my those men who make them feel special (heard, seen, flirted with, loved & cared for).
2. But, these men might not always be successful in life. They have the charm and the conversational skills, but they might not bring the financial security women look for.
3. So, most likely the man and the woman will hookup. But, the woman will not find him suitable for marriage, and say no to him. Abortions might increase.
4. The successful men of the society don't usually have the time to do all this non sense. Several of them neither have the skills of charm and flirt. Many of them have so far relied on arranged marriages to get a wife.
5. Do you think they will jump into the dating market? No. Most of them won't. Like I said, they don't have the time. Still, some of them will try and then they will see what kind of men the women are selecting. And that will make them move out.
6. After the to and fro friction, when the dust settles, and there is some equilibirium established, most women will have this sullen realization.
๐๐ผ So far, through arranged marriages, many women with beauty, or through dowry, were able to get married to decently earning, well settled guy from a well to do family, even if the woman herself was earning peanuts. The woman didn't put any efforts in finding the guy. Her parents did.
๐๐ผ Now, these women will have to deflate their egos and approach the successful guys themselves. The approach thing will become more equal, like it's in Europe. Many women will be brutally rejected by these successful guys, when they breach the subject of marriage.
So, there are four questions (if arranged marriages end).
1. Will women earning peanuts marry a man earning peanuts through the dating market? Are you ready to trade off financial security with conversation & flirting skills?
2. If not, are women earning peanuts mentally ready to approach the successful guys on her own?
3. Are women whose egos have inflated due to unlimited social media attention, ready to come out of their delusional world, and face the reality of rejections for marriage?
4. Are you ready to be evaluated and scrutnized on your character, your past, your finances, your education, your assets and everything that can possibly matter to a successful guy?
Let's be clear.
Marriage is a game of supply and demand.
Women who consider themselves beautiful are many. But, men who are actually successful are few.
women are getting way too comfortable with bringing very little to the table.
Can't cook.
Can't be a housewife.
Can't run a home.
Don't contribute financially, but insist that men must provide everything.
Can't have a conversation without drama, gossip, or constant complaining.
Can't support each other without jealousy, competition, or tearing one another down.
Exposing their bodies in public for attention.
Exposing their bodies on social media for validation from strangers.
Then wondering why families are weaker, relationships are failing, and communities feel more chaotic than ever.
If you can't build a home,
can't help provide,
can't bring peace,
can't support others,
and can't carry responsibility...
Then what exactly are you here for?
A hard question, but one that needs to be asked.
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India is in a deadlock which is almost impossible to recover from now.
If any political party says, they will amend the laws, acts, reservation etc. to make it better, or to fix its loopholes which leads to misuse, that party will never be able to form the government.
That means none of these laws are ever going to be made better. If at all, it's going to get worse, because appeasement is the key to win elections.
- more freebies
- stricter punishments in protection laws
That's the only logical direction I can see the country going towards. Any rational person can say where we are heading..
India's tax system is NOT broken. It is doing exactly what it is designed to do.
Almost 80% Indians have very poor income. Charging them any direct tax is draconian.
They are already paying taxes in many other forms: eg. sub-standard labor laws, people like Salman driving over them etc.
So who is left? 20% who can afford to pay. This group includes UHNIs, HNIs, business owners, job creators and direct tax payers.
Now, you can't tax business folks/job creator/HNI/UHNI; tax them too much they'll move their base. If they move, they move a lot of jobs with them.
So who is left? white collar workers. Or people trapped into India's financial system or employment ecosystem. In simple words: folks, who cannot move.
Widening the tax base sounds good. But realistically, it is incredibly hard to do.
What is easier to do is creating more employment. The tax base automatically expands.
What can actually be done?
1) Cut down the size of the government (do we really need the President to live in a Palace?).
2) Cut down freebies.
3) Turn freebies into Universal Basic Income for everyone.
4) Government spending on advertisements.
5) Giving special benefits to small businesses. More businesses = more jobs for bottom 80%, who in a few years could potentially become tax payers.
6) Rather than having 2 As, we should have 20,000 small businesses.
India does not have a taxation problem.
We have an employment problem.
Unfortunately, no one seems to be focused on solving that.
Men are no longer desperate for women.
And modern women are absolutely losing their minds over it.
For the first time in human history, the average man would rather be ALONE than be with the average modern woman.
And that single shift has collapsed an entire empire of female entitlement.
Men realized they were begging for crumbs of affection from women who bring nothing but chaos, bills, and body count to the table.
And now women are sitting in apartments at 28, 30, 32, with a cat, a wine glass, and a TikTok that says
Where have all the good men gone??
The men didn't go anywhere. They just stopped playing a rigged game where they have to be perfect and women get to be flawed and still be called a prize.
And that is what is driving women INSANE.
She is asking some tough questions of the Aviation Ministry.
At the airport, I removed my Rudraksha, Devi pendant, Devi Kavach, Devi gudi, a linga, my jacket and shoes.
I stand by every security rule of this country.
No questions about security.
My only question is simple: Do the same rules apply equally to everyone?
Burqa can hide many things right??