My biggest ick about myself is I will literally give someone my last, my literal last and they won’t do the same for me.. I’m learning to stop doing it. I DON’T HAVE IT!
Stop being so considerate in situations where you aren't even considered. It’s okay to be nice. But if you’re sacrificing your own needs and wants to make someone else happy - you’re sliding into “too nice” territory. This will only lead to resentment and frustration.