until you can empathise with a woman on the basis of her humanity, and not her proximity (imagine if that was your mum, sister, daughter etc), you still have work to do tbh
Sikunywi pombe because I've seen how it has ruined my uncles and a large portion of the extended family. Some of my cousins have legit lost their parents to alcohol. Me choosing a healthy lifestyle (and avoiding liver cirrhosis lmao) is not being performative.
we are in a cowardice epidemic. people avoid making any decisions at all. decisions are commitment and commitment requires the bravery to take responsibility for your desires. they would rather live in a state of possibility and ‘potential’ than run the risk of being wrong.
And then, when you feel like you've figured out a certain area of your life; Finances, Health, Diet, Relationships, etc, curb that condescending tone when advising others.
Life is not Linear, stay humble. Shit happens.
My love story will not be a story of my man cheating and mistreating me and finally coming to his senses and proposing to me years later😭 Bro I be feeling so sorry hearing those stories from women.
It's genuinely disturbing that Law & Order SVU has managed to stay on air for decades without running out of stories about violence against women. The writers aren't struggling for ideas because reality keeps supplying them.