DON’T PLAY WITH GOD. He can flip your whole story overnight. One moment you’re counted out, the next you’re standing in rooms you never qualified for. Destiny isn’t fragile when God is involved. It’s one instruction away from changing everything.
Saw someone pose the question, “When will White Women be held accountable for raising Mass Shooters, the way Black Women are blamed for raising ‘Thugs???
Stop letting people consume you. They didn't call? Go to sleep. They didn't message you? Put your phone down and have a better day. They left you on read? Delete the conversation. They didn't make an effort? Match their energy. Never let your happiness depend on anyone.
i’m learning to pray about everything fr. my attitude, my emotions, my overthinking, my healing, my habits, the people i attract, my lack of motivation sometimes… all of it. i give it to God because i know i can’t carry everything on my own.
i dont think people realize how beneficial being alone for awhile is. taking time off from relationships, finding out who you are & what you want out of your life, learning to love yourself and growing, learning to be content and happy without needing someone. its crucial.
crazy how peaceful life becomes when you decide you no longer have the energy to teach people how to appreciate you, respect you, respect your boundaries, treat you right, listen, communicate, resolve conflicts, honor agreements, be accountable, and have difficult conversations.
I asked for better... and that's why everything around me is changing. People I thought were solid don't fit my life anymore. Habits I used to love feel pointless. The old conversations don't move me, the old circles don't impress me, and the old distractions can't reach me.
When you stop reading books, you start losing verbal dexterity, depth of thought and imagination.
A closed book is a closed mind.
Don't EVER stop reading.