Once you become a certain age, it is your responsibility to unlearn behaviors that hinder your growth as a person. Maturity is healing and unlearning your own toxic patterns, so you don't unconsciously ruin your life or pass your pain onto people who did not hurt you.
I’m at a place in my life where I want people that handle me softly & considerately. i’m sensitive. and thats not something that’s negative. it just means I need to surround myself with people who are understanding of that sensitivity and naturally are kind & gentle.
I’m sorry, I love this lady. Dropped a surprise baby 2 weeks ago. Publicly announced an iconic lick back on her husband last night. Then showed up to work today in a flawless look as if nothing happened.
A star!
How I’ve been feeling lately, I can only describe as grief joy. Everything feels like an ending and a beginning all at the same the time. Very bittersweet.
In my 30s, I no longer want to hustle.
I want morning walks, followed by slow cups of coffee. I want less screen time and more face to face interaction with people I love. I want to see me smiling in pictures instead of on Zoom.
That’s what I want for me.
the feeling of knowing that you're in a big transitional stage of your life can be so surreal. it’s exciting, terrifying, and grief-filled all at once. the “shedding” process can be very confusing and overwhelming but you can’t enter your new life attached to your old one