@bronzeagemantis This is starting to happen to Japan, Shibuya at times looks like a Costco parking lot, the amount of sweaty overweight boomers is astonishing
There are many many aspects to modern dating that are simply horrific but Texting With Women might be the worst of them all, I'm an oldhead from the Before Times and can remember when Texting With Women wasn't such a big part of dating and it was 1000000x times better
You can find Americas standing in Shibuya in unflattering athletic clothing, mouth open and looking confused while waiting to cross the street. Australians do the same too. Striking contrast between the well groomed stylish Japanese and slovenly midwestern tourist who can barely walk. Get them out of here.
The financial “elite” however you define it are not the reason Muslims in Pakistan and parts of Europe have father-daughter incest birth deformities at rates many times other populations. Same, the rates of incest and actual child (<13) sexual exploitation are very elevated among: third world populations living in multifamily and intergenerational homes, Catholic priests, ultraorthodox rabbis, other religious communities and also schoolteachers because in these contexts children are regularly placed under oldtroon frequent surveillance contact and authority. If people were really concerned about child exploitation there would be massive efforts to address this and not the supposed sexual excesses of the “elite,” most of who have entirely staid bourgeois tastes and habits. Of the new rich dorkoloids, some wanted to feel cool and get 17 yr old puccy for a change from their bleak wives etc; but are reimagined as Eyes Wide Shut decadent demons by ragecore malding populysts and the financially envious they cater to
To the extent the actual old rich have decadent tastes they mostly have nothing to do with children but standard casual nonmonogamy in some cases, which, however I think enrages the populyst maldtroon and religious repressed homo more than anything and is then retconned as pedophilia.
I think maybe people with reasonable and well-founded criticisms of MAGA and Trump who are capable of taking a nuanced position that isn’t becoming a Democrat and overall think everything will be fine don’t want to spike their cortisol and engage with oversocialized basketcases who have seized on this opportunity to torment everyone else
I just straightforwardly don’t trust men who claim to not be physically attracted to women under twenty. They are either lying to me or lying to themselves for the purpose of social signaling. Regardless, I want nothing to do with it.
No thanks. I’m a brilliant eccentric and I would rather go into total hermitage than to change myself or my interests to please the unwashed, lobotomite masses in some attempt to gain induction into their fetid hive. You can enjoy becoming this, though.
@bronzeagemantis Christian father husbands enforce this more than feminists. The HR legalism in dating has gotten significantly worse in the past 10 years, its a far more important issue than Iran.
America is the only country that follows this grotesque legalism. They would raise the age of consent to 35, ban age gaps of more than a month, and imprison you for dating a woman with a BMI of less than 28. Japan and maybe France are the only countries that don't have dysfunctional HR sex culture.
Irrespective of grand geopolitical circumstances beyond my control, I have a life that is unimaginably blessed and I think many of you do too. Don’t let yourselves get too wrapped up in these abstract events, at the end of the day they are beyond us.