I'm tired of chasing after people. I'm tired of fighting for them, and I'm tired of saving them. I'm tired of putting my time and effort in people who don't care. People whose words don't match their actions. I'm tired, exhausted of giving too much, of receiving too little.
You can't really address things with toxic people because they'll think you're arguing or they'll play the victim and make you the villain in their story when they can't manipulate or gaslight you.
If I ever stop talking to you & remove you from my life, just know how hard it was for me. I have a bad habit of holding onto the little bit of good in ppl & giving too many chances. So if I donโt fw you anymore, itโs bc you pushed me way past my limitsโbut when I'm done I'm done
Just a friendly reminder: Do not check up on the toxic person you left , stopped communicating with, or stopped being friends with. Donโt check their socials. Donโt hit them up to see how theyโre doing. Your peace of mind is too important to get risk it being wrapped up again
I promise you, takers have no limits, your boundaries are their limits, and you don't lose people because of your boundaries, they lose you because of their repeated disrespect.
being cool with someone who did your friend dirty or wrong because they โdid nothing to you personallyโ, is the fakest thing ever to me. if you come for my friends you coming for me too. like itโs no serious beef but it also ainโt buddy buddy either, we just not cool