I heard a therapist say, “Your feelings are always valid, your behavior is not.” She explained by saying feel what you feel BUT you need to be accountable for what you do as a result of those feelings.
Et si il ne réagit pas comme tu veux , tu iras ailleurs en ayant l'audace de lui dire que tu l'avais prévenu qu'il y en avait d'autres qui voulaient sa place. Un égo immature, égoïste et chercheuse de conflit à rabaisser l'autre.
A man is NOT a full provider until he provides things for you that DO NOT benefit him.
Dates also benefit him.
Baecations also benefit him.
Him keeping up with your hair, nails, etc, also benefits him.
You're looking good for him.
What is he doing SOLELY FOR YOU?
Of corse your pass rates gonna be 95% if your always passing backwards and side to side, same way wingers who don’t lose the ball aren’t trying to take on the full backs….safety first 😴
The certainty has to be higher now. Our parents would only divorce because of some real shit. Now umuntu can divorce you for reasons like "My cup is not filled and my love tank is empty".
There is a Japanese Legend that says:
"Whether it's a machine, a house, or a relationship... Maintenance is always cheaper than repairing." What you don't maintain, you eventually lose.