@w_femmy Yee. Like whole situation crazy, I don't see how they go back without somebody bending the knee. The real trouble in my mind is that first person who bends often ends up being the person who bends most other times too just to keep the relationship together. Which is rather toxic
@WSouth17@DomainDead It's mental illness is exactly what fascists say about LGBTQ+ ppl. Even if you don't agree with it, ostracizing and shaming ppl only legitimizes the idea that some consensual sex is immoral, wrong, icky. If theyre not a Nazi (as theyve said they aren't) it hurts no one.
@bonliker1234@DomainDead have done it, one can easily end up using fascist arguments and ideas. Like sure you are being anti Nazi and fascist, which is good. But you are also just ostracizing people on the basis of consensual sexual practices, like MAGAt and Nazis and tons of other fascists before.
@bonliker1234@DomainDead The most insidious thing about fascism is how easy it is. Even those who are fighting fascism can lean on fascistic ideas as fascism preys on our fears, and when motivate by fear and the idea that one is doing good, if we don't interrogate what we have done as opposed to why we
@bonliker1234@DomainDead You do realize that you, Mr Morality Bedroom Policeman, are FAR closer to a fascist than someone who just thinks fascism is kinky?
@swordandflower What is horribly ironic is that people who think they should have the right to degrade and police someone else for their sexual choices are infinitely closer to fascism than someone with a Nazi kink. And they do not even seem to notice that for all their moral grandstanding.
@RaeSheff@atanoKSiSM @Geccpls @DomainDead The comments were snide. You just don't notice because you are being dismissive of ops fetishes too. But that "sooo..." and the little one word "no" come off as such. Which is rather rude when they asked after being told they weren't ready.
@DomainDead Also, I want to be very clear, kinks do not need explanation. Many ppls kinks come from a deep place in themself that maybe they do not even entirely understand. And when someone shares their kink with you, something so personal, being dismissive is not a good look.
@DomainDead (or few perhaps) think racism, rape, or harassment is actually okay. And enjoying them consentually in the bedroom does not make one a rapist, racist or abuser. This is very much the same sort of thing.